make me feel better
boy problems
dont ask
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2006-11-30 14:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u guys, wtf? lol im not lesbian
2006-11-30 14:31:53 · update #1
Somebody said to get a wife, (assuming you're a male), & someone said they would, but they "ain't" a lesbian. From your question, I don't know if you're having problems "with" boys, or having a "boy" problem! Whatever the case may be, I'm honestly sorry you feel this way. Thing is, no one is ever going to tell you "it will be alright." Wouldn't it be nice? & "love" is so transient! You have to (metaphorically) wrap YOURSELF up in a warm blanket, love YOURSELF for all the positive things about you, (no one is perfect!) & give YOURSELF a hug. Honest! That's the only fix you can get that can last. Been where you are, & learned that "some" dreams can come true, but some are far too idealistic. Just do something for yourself--get a good (not depressing or profound) book & "lose" yourself in it. Listen to music if that's your thing. RELAX in a comfortable place. Turn on some soft lights; the red glow of my ship's lamp ALWAYS makes me feel better. Have a glass of brandy, light some incense--awaken yourself to everything, anything that pleases you. & remember that life is serendipoitous--who knows what tomorrow may bring? (I wish this d-mned thing underlined or used italics!) Maybe I'm being too serious for you now? GET YOUR LOVE FROM THE INSIDE. If it's something else you have in mind, I can't help you. Take care.
2006-11-30 14:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to ask.
It doesn't matter. I'm a man and I can tell you... We suck.
When you lose yourself in a relationship, the YOU that initiated the relationship tends to disappear. Work on getting you back.
Here's your blanket. Its an old cliche, but read this slowly and think about it:
"Tommorrow is the first day of the rest of your life"
Let tommorrow be the day you take back your life and do what works for you. Stand up to the rest of 'the problem' and take back what's yours. You.
2006-11-30 14:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by websco137 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres an idea... get a hot cup of coffe for the warm part. wrap up in a warm blanket and put on scarface. that movie always makes me feel better in times of sadness.
lol dont ask y but it does...
2006-11-30 14:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by miltonbaseball7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do...
Take some candles into your bathroom, lite them, run a nice hot bubble bath, turn all the lights off, get in, relax - think about the relationship, count up the goods and the bads, think about how they effected you - do this for the first half of the bath - the second half, pamper yourself, think of nothing but you, your life, your wants, your needs...when you get out you will realize that the "boy" probably did nothing to enhance your life...leave the past in the past, your future is somewhere waiting on you to get out of the tub! :)
2006-11-30 14:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~*FreeSoul*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a warm, fuzzy blanket, a cup of hot chocolate, and Mom's arms around you! Don't stress, sweetie, next year you probably won't even remember his face!
2006-11-30 14:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by MOMMYTROLL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 14 and having boy problems?? Wow hate to see when your my age! Get over boys. Worry about school or hanging with friends. Theirs plenty of boys out there sweetie!
2006-11-30 14:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sammielynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay young lady I'll hold you for a while but this guy isn't worth it .
Boys will come and boy will go but family is for ever . Go to your Mom .
2006-11-30 14:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a cyber hug to you and some tissue
2006-11-30 14:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by ladyluck356 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, boys come and go!
2006-11-30 14:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit the bar scene...
you don't sound too choosy to put it up here...
2006-11-30 14:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋