help! im worried about my friend....?

Question

my friend was messing around with her BF around 7:00 tonight. she stopped around 7:45. and he fingered her. she's been bleeding ever since and its really heavy pure blood. its not her period and we dont know what it is. could she have just popped her cherry or is it more serious than that?

my friend was messing around with her BF around 7:00 tonight. she stopped around 7:45. and he fingered her. she's been bleeding ever since and its really heavy pure blood. its not her period and we dont know what it is. could she have just popped her cherry or is it more serious than that?

and yes shes in alot of pain. her eyes are watering.

Answer 1

There is a bit of skin at the front of the vagina called the hymen. With some girls that tears during their first period, some tear during first penetration. He was probably a bit heavy handed. That does not mean she isnt a virgin any more it just means that her hymen was intact after her first period. He may have scratched her accidentally. It will stop bleeding on its own but just keep it clean so no infection.

Answer 2

He probably scratched her.

When a woman is sexually aroused, blood rushes to the genetalia, making it extra sensitive. If he had long or jagged fingernails, he could have scratched her, and with extra blood in the area, it would bleed more than usual. A girly manicure may not be in order, but make sure his nails are trimmed, even, and CLEAN.

Bleeding for more than an hour for that reason is unusual, though, so unless you're in Mountain Time or Pacific Time, if she's having heavy bleeding still, she should go to the hospital or call her doctor. If she has a tear that's that bad, she could need a stitch or two. If that's not what is causing it, she should see her doctor or go to the ER anyway.

Fingering a girl will not "pop her cherry". The hymen (otherwise known as "cherry") is deeper than you can reach with fingers or tampons. (EDITED: I should have said that it will not usually tear the hymen. However, if he was going in really deep, it could. He would have met with some resistance, though, and the bleeding would have happened during - not after - the activity.)

Answer 3

If your friend is in so much pain, and bleeding so heavily, I would suggest taking her to a doctor. As in immediately. It may just be nothing, but when it comes down to it, I think you'd rather be safe than sorry.

Answer 4

the suited element to do (in case you sense it is proper for sure) is the locate the right time to inform him you're sexual orientation in case you sense comfortable with it. If no longer than do not problem, from what it sounds like you're pal purely made an harmless, white funny tale about something quite minor. there is like 0.5 of one million p.c. danger he'd even suspect something. yet actual, as quickly because it is out contained in the open it will be lots a lot less awkward. purely tell him that you're gay, and that he's your pal and also you do not imagine of him as something different. for sure whenever you sense waiting if ever.as a lot as you. also purely to throw in, tutor him that you mean nicely and that you're genuine for your word. in case you understand any lady associates that would want to be attracted for your pal than attempt to hook them up and allow him understand you're assisting him out. something like that purely to ease some a possibility rigidity.

Answer 5

its probably her period bcuz when u pop the cherry it doesnt bleed alot. its probably early (her period) did he actually put his finger all the way up.

Answer 6

if it is a heavy bleeding go and check with her doctor. its the best you can do

Answer 7

If that was her first time...then yes...she probably had her hymen broken...it should ease up...if not I don't know what it could be...maybe he cut her or something

Answer 8

it depends on if she was a virgin before it happend...my ex and i were messing around (when we were together)and it happened to me so he may have ripped her

Answer 9

ok take her to the doctor

Answer 10

pain?