after an 8 year relationship my girlfreind ended it to go to california
2006-11-30 13:42:27 · 25 answers · asked by Bwk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Volunteer to help others less fortunate. You will feel better about helping someone and may meet someone while doing something worthwhile.
2006-11-30 13:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Suzie Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay-
That is really sad. Eight years is a really long time. You will need to adjust slowly. Don't just jump into the saddle.
This is where I say- TRUST your good friends.
They will put only the best people in front of you.
Make new friends, new "girl" friends, you don't need to be dating right now. You need to get over the anger and work through that pain. By March you will have a clean slate and ready to date again.
Your heart will heal and it honestly may be the best thing that every happened to you. Work on you. Do things for you, exercise, eat right, travel witth guys, go play pool. You will feel lonely at first, but keep busy and your will soon feel better.
The holidays are hard, yet don't worry about this choice. Take the time to give to others (charity work) and go to your family, they will love to have you back!
Best wishes
2006-11-30 13:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sadness is a normal emotion due to a breakup, that u are feeling u are to blame for. u have had a loss and a disapointment in life. you have lost someone u loved and feel like u failed, and wonder what it is you did , but it's not about u, it's about her and whatever she left for, we don't ever know why, and if they did tell us why maybe it would be something that would further make us feel hurt. sometimes we just have to let whatever will be, just be. takes time to get over it, their is a grief process, that we can't will away or make leave until it does. we have to go through this to be able to move forward in life. just know that the pain doesn't leave us where it finds us, and maybe there is something better right around the corner for u, once u get past this. things happen for a reason in life that we don't always get answers for, and we are always so quick to blame ourselves for whatever happened, but this is about her choices, and her life, and we have no control over what the other person does.
2006-12-02 12:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like that singer says in a country western song "find a brand new girlfriend" one that will not use u for everything u have and will put out what u need and when u need it, the way i see it if the sex is no good, then the relationship will suck, and let me guess towards the end u went to bed more than one night with a raging (u know what) and she went to sleep, knowing u were in pain, basically all women are hoe's and r only good for one thing, cuz trust me u can have more fun and less headaches on a harley, than on a woman
2006-11-30 13:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend time in familiar places. Use this time to go out and do something new and exciting. Get your adrenaline pumping and keep your hormone levels up. If you stay inside moping all day, your body and brain will feel drained, making you feel like you needed your girlfriend to live. This can only lead to destructive feelings and behavior.
And I know it may seem stereotypical, but go to a strip club. Great way to get your mind off of relationships.
2006-11-30 13:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its true love move with her 8 years come on now dont let her up and leave and if you cant go dont mope around try to meet new people start to party do things that will get your mind off her but 8 years is a long time maybe you should talk to her about a long distance realation ship and vist her frequently and for personal or private advice you should email: advice_ifyouneedit@yahoo.com
2006-11-30 13:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by maxamarra s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 14:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. Time heals everything. Don't jump into anything right away. Find some old friends to hang out with so that you are not so lonely. For another womans sake; don't look for a rebound.
2006-11-30 13:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....but i think the best way to handle it is to tell yourself that it was not you.."it was her" and if she left you there is a reason, it might not be good for you @ the moment but intime it will be the best thing that could of ever happend to you,,, i believe things do happen for a reason, for the best so have your little cry to your mates but dont keep it with youtoss it away when your finished
2006-11-30 13:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by TiGa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋