this grl that i know came to school new last year. we were best friends right from the beginning. then all of a sudden, she started hating me for no good reason! i tried to talk to her several times, but she kept shrugging me off. my mom had to yell at her, but she never changed. the principal talked to her several times, but she still hasn't changed a bit of her behavior. now she's making bad decsions in her life and im scared for her. i want to be friends with her but its like im lucky to have a word from her spoken to me, nice or nasty! please help!
2006-11-30 13:34:48 · 20 answers · asked by kitty_baller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She might be going through something and its making her angry she could sill need you to get her through the rough times in her life. Good luck
P.S. I am going off of what happened to me
2006-11-30 13:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by dragonrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you are an awesome friend
but you know what, sometimes people need to make mistakes before they know that they have screwed up
the quesion is how long will it take them to realize
maybe you can send her a letter note or e mail regarding how you feel
She probably started hating you because someone told her about something about you that made her angry
Mind you if she keeps on ignoring you she's not a good friend anyways right?
2006-11-30 13:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sticky situation...
leave a note in her locker and be like:
dearest whatever her name is,
I know were not talking anymore so im gonna say what i want to in this letter and let you live your life on your own... I still value the friendship that we once shared, so i just want you to know, if u ever need anything, i got ur back dog!
signed,
ur name
if ur chasing, means she doesnt want you around, the more u chase the more she runs.. give up and she'll slow down, and eventually look over her shoulder.
2006-11-30 13:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by ziggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be having a nervous brake down she might think you are in danger because your her friend and she cares about you something brothering her I think you should mention this to her mother or dad an see if they will get to the bottom of this even if it takes therapy of some sort not saying medicate
2006-11-30 14:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by A Yellow Rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have seen this situation before and i recommend you try to get her on her own and talk to her. If this doesn't work and you are afraid that she might do something to get herself in serious trouble or hurt, I suggest you tell your school councilor. she might not like you for this but at least you know she might be able to get the help she needs.
2006-11-30 13:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her stop, grab her and make her listen to you and ask her what's wrong. Try asking her parents what her hobbies are and try them out and don't get frusterated!!! I had that problem before. Friends like that i think i might just get any help i can.
2006-11-30 13:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by shawn p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to move on ... she may drag you down with her
i had a friend like this ... we now do not talk and i havemoved on she will be fine im sure
2006-11-30 13:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Dont waste your time wanting to be friends with somene like that
2006-11-30 13:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the old cool shrug. It means she thinks you are a goody-two shoes. She doesn't want your help or friendship.
2006-11-30 13:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bug her Bug her and Bug her....Dont yell at her though. Let her know you are still there for her and she can come to you for anything. Other than that I would pray for her. And yourself. Hope this helps =)
2006-11-30 13:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by mini_may04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋