Hi! Well, there this girl Jamie I used to go to her school. We used to be friends but now she is really bugging me. She calls 15 times a day, no really, literally, and she keeps e-mailing my boyfriend, and my other friends. Once I told her to send the e-mail to me to I could ''forward'' it, without reading it too my friend, Liam. Of course I read it, and she was asking him out and saying everything about ME like, my life story, or something, and she was meaning to send it to him!
I am really getting annoyed with her calling all the time. Sometimes I miss calls because I think it may be her, and then I have to pay extra to get caller ID. (to just not pick up when she calls).Its really just making me uncomfortable, you'kno, like, she is talking to my friends. I really want her to stay out my buisness and my friends buisness, she doesn't even know them, there MY friends! I am being nice, kind, and polite with her. I
even help her in school. How can say nicely for her to stop?
2006-11-30 13:17:26 · 10 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why be nice to her??? Just tell her to back off...
2006-11-30 13:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I can help I love to give advice. First how old is this girl, better yet how mature is she? is she the fighting type, or the scared? You need to answer these and then decide what you want to do. If she's the talking type then simply go up to her, tell her that you want her to have a one on one talk with her. Tell her how you feel, and that you think she's a nice person, but just that she is sacring you with her overy-needy attitude to be IN your life. Tell her she needs to back off, not totaly, just enough to were the friend, and family boundy line is. Maybe she can understand that, and if not try explaining it to her by putting her in your shoes. If this doesn't work, I would change my name and move to another state lol. Hope I helped.
2006-11-30 21:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by vanoss_playerette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes your best friend, or at least she thinks she is in that matter. Hell i call my frien all the time give them crap lol, but hey; Just imply tell her she needs to cool it on the phone calls b/c its eating up on your bills or something, tell her to call only couple times a week at most. As far as her wanting to be with your bf, you should be happy, she likes him, and i presume dispite what she has told him about you, hes still with you? Then whats the problem? He cares for you not her! Dont get mad lol.
Think it over.
-James
2006-11-30 21:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's harassment that she is doing if you don't tell her to stop. Tell her nicely how you feel and ask her to please stop calling you so many times and how you'd appreciate it if she gave you a little bit of room because you feel uncomfortable when is constantly calling you and trying to e-mail your friends about you.
Hopefully she'll understand and back out of your area. As for your friends it's up to them to tell her to stay out of their business.
Good luck!!
2006-11-30 21:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to stop and prepare for the consequences. Most likely she will be hurt by it or get mad. However, if you don't tell her it may build up inside of you until eventually you will explode. Either way she may get her feelings hurt so its best to do it while you are still calm.
2006-11-30 21:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Phenomenal Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people you just have to get mean with. She may be one of these people.
2006-11-30 21:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be mean to tell her how you truly feel. just be stern with her letting her know that you are serious and that she is annoying as hell. if she dont listen then that when you get mean as hell and tell her that she's a freak and stop calling you.
2006-11-30 21:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well probably the best thing would be to tell her to just stop. Explain to her why and she should listen.
2006-11-30 21:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say im sorry but your to close in with my life i love you as a friend but im sorry it's geting a little topersonal and i rea dthe emssage you sent to my boyfriend i still want to be your friend but can we jsut tone it down a little
2006-11-30 21:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by VEGAN4Lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't have a life introduce her to a male friend that will give her something to do with her life.
2006-11-30 21:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by desperate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋