ok i have yet to actually have sex with my boyfriend, but one day we came realy close to, he put the condom on and pushed against me, but we couldnt go further cause his room mate came home.
my question is, if he accidently went to put the condom on but did it backwards at first, could he of got some stuff on there, and when he pushed against me, not even going in me could i get pregnant.
i have been so stressed about this, i am making myself late, and im too scared to go and get a test.
people please if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it.
im just a young teen who needs some reassurance.
my friends arent taking me seriously.
2006-11-30 13:04:36 · 20 answers · asked by Manda K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OMG you guys are making me feel so much better, you dont even know!
i try to relax and let it go but it just comes back and hits me in the face that there could actually be somethinging growing in me.
is there a way to make my period come sooner?
its weird, but for the first time i want to have it!!!
lol
thanks all of you!
2006-11-30 13:14:05 · update #1
Please dont stress out over that. I understand why you are stressing, but try and relax. It is VERY unlikely that you could get pregnant from just that. Yes him putting on the condom backwards and then redoing it can get stuff on it and sperm does NOT die as soon as it hits the air( I saw someone put that in their answer.), but since he didnt actually go in, then Im sure your not pregnant. Next time that happens make sure he throws it away and gets another. Not that I condone teens having sex, but if your going to, then make sure to take all the precautions.
2006-11-30 13:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be possible but is highly unlikely. Best thing to do is to stop stressing so that if your period is late it will come. And if it doesnt you really need to get a test. I dont think you are pregnant and if you arent maybe you should consider some additional birth control like the pill or something. you dont even have to let your parents know that you are getting it. I would suggest this though if you are even thinking about becoming sexually active. I had my first baby at 16 and it is not a responsibility that you want to take on that young. You miss out on a lot. Please be safe.
2006-11-30 21:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal Woods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a young teen and you have a bf who has a room mate, you may have a problem their. Anyways, if your are already freaking out about being pregnante and you haven't actually had sex yet then you're simply not ready to deal with the possiblities that come from having sex. Yes it feels great, and may feel all perfect and everything but i suggest waiting, and if you can't talk to your parents and get on some birth control...and never have sex without a condom. you may know where you have been but not your bf, and or all the people he's slept with an who they've slept with and so on.
2006-11-30 23:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manda.... sweetie..... you just said you where a young teen........ you didn't really have actual intercourse....and you are already stressing that you might be pregnant. These are the problems that you will have to face if you actually did have intercourse... is it worth it ????? I think not.....?????!!!!!!!! Wait until your older...and mature enough to deal with sex!!!!! It doesn't really sound like you are ready !!!! And pregnancy isn't the only thing you should be worried about .... have you thought about the STD'S (SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES) that you may contract by not using protection...... or using it wrong. If you insist on doing it....... ( and he still doesn't know how to use a condom) then I would suggest you both get checked for any STD'S...,and then if everything is ok..... get yourself on birth control pills.... you take charge of the protecting yourself from becoming pregnant !!!! Best of luck to you !!! 8)
2006-11-30 21:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , I`m a mother of 3 boys , not to worry. Nothing happen and that is a good thing. Our body only ovulates once a month for 24 hours, and you can find out when,all you got to do is take your body temperature every day same way you take your fever,the temperature has to be the same every day, if it gets higher than normal you are ovulating be very careful the sperm lives in you for at least 48 hours. but my best advise is: put yourself on birth control,and make your partner still use a condom for preventing any STD. good luck.
2006-11-30 21:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by fontinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop worrying. My hubby and I have used condoms NUMEROUS times and sometimes you do almost put them on the wrong way. It is normal. Usually there is spermicide in the condoms to kill any sperm so don't worry. If you are that concerned then you need to take a test. You can find free clinics in your area then it wont cost you anything.
BTW... props for you for using a condom!!!!! Shows you are a smart teen. Good luck Hun
2006-11-30 21:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible chances are that you are not but i would go and get a test to find out and if it didn't happen too long ago i think that you can get the 72 hour pill from planned parent hood . If you are going to be sexually active than it would be a really good idea to get on the pill so that it is not the man that you are depending on. that way your in control and that wont happen again
2006-11-30 21:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is HIGHLY unlikley that sperm will swim from the tip of the condom, find a way into your body, and up to your cervics, to even get in enough to make you pregnant. Dont worry, I would bet money that you are not pregnant based in that encounter alone.
2006-11-30 21:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reassurance? What you need is some information and a little common sense! If you are so absolutely ignorant regarding the facts of sex and pregnancy, then you have no business being anywhere near a male and his "stuff".
2006-11-30 21:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Rocket Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop worrying, he didnt come close yet.
Go about your normal life and try again, just continue to use protection.
His sperm would have to get way up in u to reach your ovaries and get u pregnant.
U are okay...cheer up.
2006-11-30 21:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋