ok this is really hard for me to ask am i being paranoid or is he really sick and i should leave? ok here goes me and my bf of 7 yrs have 2 diffrent computers im never on his but to day i was. he has alot of porn of teens and preteens on his computer in his history and some down loaded off limewire. we have a little girl and one on the way. i asked him about it lol tried to say it wasnt teen and preteen i know they porn ppl do change there ages but its obvios he was looking for teen and preteen in order for it tp be downloaded. off lime wire. i feel like my kids arent safe knowing now what he jerks off to. i feel that he is a sick twisted mother fcker and lol things were fine before today would you feel the same way? he is trying to say im over reacting and i dont think i am what would you do? i feel like kicking him out of the house and lol just might do that
2006-11-30 12:43:22 · 17 answers · asked by cute redhead 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Is this something you could ever look past? for me, the answer is no. even if he promised me he wouldn't look at it anymore, it would always haunt me. and your bf isn't even apologizing - he's rationalizing and defending it. if it was me, i would get away from him! it sucks that you have kids and that it will alter your life so much, but it's better than waiting around and allowing something to happen. even if the chances are slim, if he ever did anything to a young girl, you would have a hard time forgiving yourself for not getting away from him when you had your chance. just my opinion.
2006-11-30 12:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Chavarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by ribbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a problem and it needs to be addressed before it gets to far. Maybe get him some help and give him a chance. then if that doesn't work then leave, but I would becareful how long you leave the kids with him. I know I would try to get him the help. Don't know what else to tell you. Sorry!!! Best of luck!!!
2006-11-30 12:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not stay with him. It's dangerous for the kids and he's not being honest with you and it's creepy. I suggest you speak with the police; if you don't and he acts out on his fantasies and hurts another child, you won't be able to forgive yourself. This is a very big step, considering he's the father of your children. But it's important.
2006-12-02 11:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a porn addiction and should take this up with his family doctor. Also it sounds like this could be jeopardizing your marrage. In any event counseling should be put into place if not for yourselfs, but for the children
2006-11-30 12:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a case like that in our town, and the girlfriend brought his laptop computer to the police, and he was arrested. got 6 months in jail. We can't download child porn. That is perverted. Take your kids and run!
2006-11-30 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a man of 25 and i have never found that kind of stuff good once a pedophile always a pedophile you need to kick him to the curb before he hurts one of your girls because a man that is into that sort of thing is sick and needs help or prosecuted call your local authorities and turn him in help get these predators of the net
2006-11-30 12:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by steven s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first question would be why were you on his comp in the first place and secondly why were you searching his history. i think in the back of your mind you knew something wasnt quite right. my first instinct would be protecting the kids. lets say you are over-reacting and let him stay. then one day your little girl tells you he touched her, now what? id kick him to the curb personally
2006-11-30 14:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just sick u need to put him out report him or something remember that your kids come first
2006-11-30 12:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by *star* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately dump him because your kids could be in danger, or it may be possable that they have already been hurt. LEAVE HIM
2006-11-30 13:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋