Im an average looking guy and im in pretty deceint shape. theres this girl that I like in one of my classes and im scared to talk to her. I think if I can either dress better or do anything diffrent mabye i can get her to notice me and have the confidence to ask her out.
2006-11-30 12:23:23 · 18 answers · asked by justinr1819 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You want to make urself look more attractive for a girl?! dude your going about it all wrong!!! Trying to get a girl by making your self acceptable is unacceptable!! I know, ive been there and done that. This is fact, u do not have to look good to get a girl... i see some seriously ugly guys walking down the street with seriously hot girls!! know what that means? looks dont matter. u say ur average looking and in pretty good shape, i think that's all there is to it.. if u try to look good, she might think u look good, but she'll think ur needy, hence undesirable. and u wont get her...
If u really want to catch her attention (since ur not a seriously ugly guy), wake up tomorow morning take a shower, brush ur teeth, look at ur self no longer than 5 seconds in the mirror, if u think u look good, then you do! if u stay longer than that u'll have second thoughts start over analysing and chicks KNOW when u ddo that! from the type of question im guessing ur in middle/high sschool.... girls can be ruthless at that age! they have less mercy than attila the hun! so back to ur story, brush ur teeth, shower, shave if u do, put on some deodorant and DONT PUT TOO MUCH COLOGNE ON!!! one spray on ur palm, rub them and wipe ur cheecks and neck. now u look good,but not too good... the best way to get a chick is to make her want you! how do u do that if she doesnt know u exist? NEVER start with a compliment, drop her a funny one liner thats not a compliment but is.. get this, go to her and be like (use ur own story here), hey ur the girl that came in with pigtails yesturday... *small smile* u looked funny! *look at watch* oh damn im late for class, ill see you around and walk away.. or, your the girl that dropped chloroform on herself in the chem lab, bet u smelled like hell after that... in fact.. i think i can still smell it.. break connection with a smile and walk off... now shes thinking.. hmm.. who was that guy, and she'll ask her friends and they'll start gossiping about u and next time u see her be like, Thats better u dont smell like a skunk anymore! or Im glad you dont have that bacon in ur head anymore, how have u been since then? school going allright?.. at this point u want to ask ALL the questions! make her talk about herself... thats all girls want... u now got the moves.. go strut ur stuff... Just remember.. TREAT GIRLS WITH UTMOST RESPECT!!! but dont let them walk all over you either.
2006-11-30 12:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by ziggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys do get makeovers nowadays.
First off, get a haircut at a nice salon. Yes, they cut men's hair too, and they can give you tips on styling it and even shaving. Plus it will look nicer than a regular barber's cut.
Do you wear glasses? If so, consider getting new ones. Really ask the person helping you choose what they think would look best on you. They do it every day. Try on a bunch.
Go shopping ... but don't just buy whatever's on the mannequin. Even at a department store, you know how the salespeople are always asking "Can I help you?" Tell them yes. Ask for advice. Get a different style of pants than you usually wear ... and make sure you and the salesperson agree on the right size. A lot of guys buy them too small and push them way below their waist. Other guys buy them too big ... and then she can't tell how good-looking you are.
One thing I hate is clothing with pictures. Do all your shirts have funny drawings or words on them? If so, buy some without any. Patterns, like stripes and such. Solid, rich colors. Maybe some textured knit sweaters, since it's winter now. (Make sure it's a soft fabric ... think something she would like to touch.)
Consider cologne, but be careful with it. I know I HATE the smell of most colognes and body sprays. They're too musky for me. If you're not sure don't wear any, just deodorant and maybe aftershave.
But the absolute best way to get a girl to notice you is to talk to her!
2006-11-30 12:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look neat and be yourself.
Try for once just going up to her and say simple one liners, make sure it applies! Or really go up and chat with her but keep it short, if there's a moment of awkward silence, don't worry too much, just take your leave politely. Do it like a guerilla, hit and go.
Be gentle but not too nice. Don't ever end up a nice guy in her eyes! Be a good guy in her eyes. You may want to try talking to her friends to get to know her a little but don't make it too obvious, let her as a topic come naturally.
2006-11-30 12:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen young pimp in training. You dont need any clothes or anything, just start a convo and then try to make her laugh. Be confident about yourself when talk like your in control but also have give time to tak to her as well. This doesnt mean you have to listen to every little statement that she has to say but just go ahead and listen to the important tthings she do have to say. But keep it pimpin ya dig!!!!!!!!1
2006-11-30 17:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Santana Cruz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not everything, attitude is a must. Make sure you have confidence with it or the most expensive clothes in the world won't do you any good. Be positive, be yourself and be sincere.
2006-11-30 12:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter how u dress....that is so unimportant. Instead u need to worry about feeling and looking more confident. Remember.....shoulders back and head high. You need not say a word. Sometimes you can say all you want in just a SMILE!!
2006-11-30 12:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if you are not then you are really just basing a false relationship. Trust me, there is this guy I like in my neighborhood and he is just himself and I love him for it. And I know that you hear it alot but it seriously works. Also, if you are already being your self play hard to get, girls always want what they cannot have, I personally think you should just act like how should I put it... really cool act all laid back, trust me it works wonders. And this guy in my neighborhood, my little sister told him I like him and we have been flirty flirty ever since, I also found out he likes me back somewhat... but the reason I told you that is because if you can get your younger sibling or something to say you like her it is totally not your fault and you can see how she reacts if she does not like you back just say your sibling thinks you like everyone and if she says she kind of likes you back then just kind of play along. It really works wonders.
2006-11-30 12:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think attraction has lots of effect concerning making friends with a girl...but you do need to look neat...
Wear like AE, GAP, or Lacoste sorts of clothes...
Make sure you are a humorous person...
2006-11-30 12:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by ilshdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE yourself and express who you are.. nothing more can exceed to the attention of a girl than a guy with confidence on himself and has a good sense of humor......
2006-11-30 12:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get a wig with florecent green wig with some humongo sunglasses some tight leather pants and a nerdy shirt and for the shoes go ask ronald mcdonald well i hope u like it lol
2006-11-30 12:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋