What is your opinion on women with healthy sexual appetites?

Question

In MONGAMOUS relationships. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with a woman that likes to have sex with husband/boyfriend (which ever applies). But if she's with a different guy every night of the week, then yeah I'd say there's something wrong with that.

Reason I'm asking is because my co-worker who is married, doesn't like to have sex and feels that sex is only for a man's pleasure not a woman's. I told her she was crazy. What's your opinion?

Answer 1

As far as your first question, "What is your opinion on women with healthy sexual appetites? " I feel that is absolutely GREAT! I have heard that some don't (how unfortunate).& I agree that there is nothing wrong with a woman that likes to have sex ESPECIALLY in a MONGAMOUS relationship.
I agree as well that if there is a woman or man for that matter, that does feel they must have sex with someone different evey night of the week, then yes, there is something that needs to be dealt with.
BUT if the person knowningly can differenciate the DIFFERENCE between LOVE and SEX (which there is A BIG DIFFERENCE) and openly communicates this with the partner or partners and is agreed with them, and of course IS RESPONSIBLE about these sexual encounters then I feel there is nothing wrong with sexual experiance like this.
As far as my opinion about your co-worker who is married and doesn't like to have sex and feel it is only for a man's pleasure, I feel sad for that woman and for that man she is married to.
I have heard this situation before and is unfortuanltly NOT uncommon amongst women. Sad. Maybe she needs to be more open about her sexuallity and have a convo (if one hasn't happened yet) with her husband, and some thereapy as well.

Answer 2

She is either crazy, lying or has not experienced herself yet. Some women repress themselves, which is really none of my business. However, I can understand why she may have said it, was she joking with you? Admittedly so, sexuality is more spiritual for me on a higher level which leads to ecstasy. Being in a committed relationship with two consenting adults in the privacy of their own home is downright erotic- I would assume she has never felt the power of it or she wouldn't have had the need to say such a thing. Because I have hypothyroidism, my boyfriend and soul mate are very compatible; my hormones are higher with testerone to begin with. I hate to say this, but... I might get shot down for this, but I will literally hump the bedpost if no one is around. *Looks around, OH there I go again, speaking out of bluntness*

Answer 3

Interesting. It's a fact some women do not have a sex drive (couldn't find the study or I'd post it here). Majority of women enjoy it just like men.

Answer 4

There is definately something wrong with her. Maybe she has had a bad experience. I love sex. There's not many men or women that don't like sex. She must have some issues.

Answer 5

opinion?, favourable

wow, has she ever enjoyed sex?

as far as i have experienced women seem to derive a lot more pleasure from sex than men, i think men just want it more often (generally)

perhaps it's her husband u should b talking 2

Answer 6

Hey I like to have sex with my hubby every day and there is nothing wrong with that. But I would never cheat with someone else. That is wrong. You never know what someone could give you.

Answer 7

If a woman wants sex with her man as much as he can give it, go for it

Answer 8

I have a higher sex drive then my partner. I have a huge sex drive, there's nothing wrong with it! I don't sleep around!

Answer 9

I think there is nothing wrong with that and is part of a healthy relationship...

Answer 10

she's either crazy, or her partner has been doing the same old routine for ages. tell her to suggest to her partner that he spice things up and try someting new. my girlfriend and i have been together for a very long time, and it never gets old for either of us ;)