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there's this young person who i think has a crush on me and when my husband came to visit, this person made a point to come up to me and ask me if that was my dad?! my husband doesn't look old.. so, the question kind of floored me.

2006-11-30 12:06:21 · 19 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

19 answers

You must look much younger than he does.

2006-11-30 12:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1 0

Hello:

I think it is this young person's way of throwing you off balance. Almost anyone can tell a husband and wife relationship apart from a father and daughter relationship. It's all about the interaction between the two people. And unless I was 100% certain, I would never ask someone if the person they were with was their father. That's just not the type of question people normally ask.

I would say not to worry about it. If this person continues to bother you, maybe take them aside and tell them that you are very much in love with your husband and their attention is making you uncomfortable. Or mention that it is entirely unprofessional to ask a personal question like that to a guest of yours.

I hope this helps and good luck.

2006-11-30 12:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0 0

If your guy was not affectionate at all, some one might have though it was your dad. So guys just don't get it when a hubby comes over and stands 20 feet away from his wife, does not touch her and does not look at her. Sure the wife is lost in love for this love less guy, but other guys don't get it. If the guy had someone as hot as you, he touch you all the time.

2006-11-30 12:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0 0

Well with me being a man i will tell you everything you may want to hear and a little more. So here goes you look so good and young for your age how do you do that.

That's what he was getting at darling.

2006-11-30 12:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0 0

Must be a big age difference between you and hubby. Or the other guy is naive and hoped that you were not married

2006-11-30 12:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LOL...do you guys look alike? There is an old saying: If you share the same towels, you start looking like each other.
He probably was trying to flatter you and I bet it did! GO YOU!!!!

2006-11-30 12:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 0 0

(grinning) Take it as a compliment! The young person is jealous.

2006-11-30 12:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0 0

It was a thinly veiled insult to your hubby, and it was deliberate.
He (the young guy) must be a jerk.

2006-11-30 12:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by die_laffing 3 · 0 0

maybe he was trying to suggest you should be with someone younger like him, not that you should, be but he has a crush

2006-11-30 12:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by earthgirl766 3 · 0 0

I'd say that your hubby robbed the cradle. Shame on him!

2006-11-30 12:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0 0

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