How do you instill trust in someone? When you meet, how do you know you can trust them or not?
2006-11-30 11:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have had that problem many times. I start out my telling them sort of private but that would not destroy my life if it got out..something only you and they (once you tell them would know)..then if you hear if around you know they can't be trusted. Over the years, I have learned that VERY FEW people can really be trusted for personal sensitive issues. Either they don't care or don't want to get involved. CHoose what to share and with who VERY carefully. I have made the mistake to share thing with people who have said oh..if you can't trust me...you can't tust anybody...well then I trust anybody..if you know what I mean...
2006-11-30 12:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by chilover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not possible, 911 seems to have changed all the rules, u are doing old school stuff, try pigeon holing the guy that should warp and confuse'm for a while, til u figure out all the other possibilities that can pull strings to what u have issues about, instill- means: you don't c the game as a trust then don't play with what u can't afford to loose
2006-11-30 19:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is defined as reliance on the integrity, strength, etc. of a person. Trust is something that is build over time. Some people trust others fairly easily while others take time to trust others. It is up to you when you feel you trust others. You have to get to know someone and their values in order to determine whether or not you feel as though you would feel comfortable developing a closer relationship with that individual.
2006-11-30 20:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jason H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes you can't tell when you first meet a person if you can trust them or not. Get to know the person and become friends; See what they're like, how they act, etc. Then, you will know if you can trust them or not.
2006-11-30 19:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cannot instill trust, it must be inspired.
In order to know if one can trust someone, one must RISK trusting.
Fools rush in.
2006-12-01 07:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I use my animal instinct, my basic instinct to see if that person could be trust or not. By looking and viewing their way to talk to you and their way to express themselves, their way to see you and their eyes surely. I dunno how to explain this but I just have that kinda strong sense to see if I can trust you or not. Sort of like a sixth sense? hahahah dunno....maybe just a sensitive feeling cuz I'm Capri. But not necessarily always true, sometimes I was wrong about someone.
2006-11-30 19:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't know immediately, you need to spend some time with people. You need to know their interests, hopes and family life.
This can't be done easily or quickly. Sometimes it can take years, especially if you've been hurt by someone.
Just take relationships one step at a time.
2006-11-30 19:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋