I've been in a relationship with this female for 2 yrs and last year around this time she cheated on me and now she's doing it again. How can someone say they love u and do the same stuff to hurt you again. I know I need to get out but it hurts so bad. Please Help, what should I do?
2006-11-30 11:39:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry to hear that but you need to let her go if she is doing the exact same thing again. Second chances are deserved by everyone but for her to do it again just means she has no love for you and no respect for your feelings because if she did she would have been truthful instead of sneaking off to get something on the side..
It hurts to be let down...wasting time denying the inevitable is not fair to yourself. Move on and keep hope in the fact there is someone out there who will respect and love you it takes time but you will find her.
2006-11-30 11:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that love hurts is because we have an expectation of others to behave in certain ways. However, people are really hard to control and one way or the other they will usually do something I don't like.
I think in your case you should get out of the relationship whatever it takes. If you can't do it on your own get some support from friends or family or maybe a counselor or therapist if you can afford it.
I was in a relationship for two years with somebody that cheated. I realized that I was addicted to the person even though they weren't good for me. After I broke it off I felt much better. Its worth it. Some people just can't change, they keep cheating.
2006-11-30 19:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to kick this girl to the kerb. Shes cheated on you before but you took her back, i am guessing you really like her, but you cant have a happy healthy relationship if she is hurting you so much. She should of understood the first time she cheated on you that she really hurt you and should of learnt. I think you are wasting your time with this girl, she obviously doesn't appreciate you. Go find someone who will treat you with respect and love you : ) Good luck
2006-11-30 19:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Shes a Cookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater, especially if its happened directly to you with that person. Get out now. You will be happier in the end you will see. Be strong ,don't look back, keep your self busy, do something special for YOU!
2006-11-30 19:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by snickernikki727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her. You deserve some one who will love you, appreciate you very much. If she really loves you like she claims, then she should of not cheated on you again. That's low!
2006-11-30 19:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts so much because it is something that we cannot control... as in many things in life that we can control, the subject of love is something that we have no force in - it just happens. and you keep loving her and taking her back after all those awful things she's done because of an uncontrollable feeling... that's how I feel anway.
2006-12-01 01:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by love earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people changes over time. people wants new & excitement every now & then. if u cant tolerate her behaviour, get out of the relationship. if u can just close an eye to it, let it be...
2006-11-30 19:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew why love hurts so much. ..but better to have loved and be loved then not to at all.
2006-11-30 19:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Move on,,,,,,,life always gets better. Why does Life hurt so much?
2006-11-30 19:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by fwscooter1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying i love you is different than being in love. Love is felt, not told.
2006-11-30 19:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋