I am tired of trying to get pregnant?

Question

Will it ever happen for me? Seeing my period every month is getting frustrating. How can others get preg so effortlessly? Three of my friends started trying 7 months back and all of them got pregnant except me?!

Answer 1

there's a point where you and your partner might have to go see a fertility specialist. they may be able to help you out.

Answer 2

My husband and I have been trying for three years! In that 3 years we had 1 miscarriage and my little sister has gotten pregnant twice! We are both 35 and have no children (talk about a clock ticking). We finally a couple of months ago started getting tested. First test-semen analysis-we get our answer--low sperm count. Basically we are done, we can't afford ivf. Hopefully you will have a happier ending! The reason I am telling you this is those who tell you to 'relax, it will happen when the time is right'-well they are full of it. Unfortunately not everyone gets to have kids, and that really stinks! My advice is to be aggressive. Get in there and get some answers. You don't mention your age, or how long you have been trying, but if you are ready for a child, go for it. Talk to your doctor and get some answers.

Good luck to you!!

If you're under age 35 and have no fertility problems, you have a 20 percent chance of becoming pregnant each month that you try.

Answer 3

Oh, I know.

I've been trying for nearly a year. My sister-in-law who hates kids is pregnant. The irresponsible 16-year-old who lives across the street is pregnant. My cousin is pregnant (it happened on her honeymoon!). It's getting a little ridiculous.

The only thing I can say is get checked out by a doctor if you haven't already. I really want to try for a year before doing that (two more months!). You could also join some of the online forums for women who are trying to conceive ... check out the ones at justmommies.com. It helps a LOT to talk about the frustration with other women who are in the same position. And it seems to happen to so many of us (we're trying to get pregnant, everybody BUT us is).

So check those out, think about a doctor, focus on pinpointing ovulation and having sex at the right times ... it will come for you, too.

Good luck! And wish me luck, too!

Answer 4

well honey I feel for you. It seems like all me and my husband have to do is share a bar of soap and boom I get pregnant...just kidding....but it seems like thats how it works. I dont know how true it is but I have heard that ovulation and the sex position has alot to do with someone being able to get pregnant. On the knees is the only way my sister can get pregnant. And its always 3 days before or three days after her period. She tried for over a year and the doctor to try having sex up on her knees...doggie style ... if you wish. This alows the sperm to be closer to the egg to fertilize it. Your fertility level is stronger 3 days before and 3 days after you period. So when she wants to get pregnant. She has sex 3 days before (everyday) usually right after a shower. Make sure he's really excited and dont let him have any 2 days before you need to do the 3 day thing that way he shoots out more sperm. The longer the wait the better sperm increase.

Answer 5

aww hun i know how hard it is to get pregnant. io had very irregular periods and my daughter was concieved after 9 very long months. you dont say how long you've been trying for but if its longer then a year then i would advise to visit your doctor and try to see if you can start fertility treatment.

i am now trying for my second baby and this is my 5 month. the past two cycles i have been using opks and a fertility monitor and also doing my bbt. as i'm hoping using these will help me get pg quicker.

hang in there it will happen for you.

Answer 6

It can be frustrating, but sometimes the harder you try the harder it is to become pregnant. Try not having sex until 10 days after the first day of your period and then every other day through day 16. Sperm can live 3-5 days inside you.

Answer 7

belive it or not getting pregnant is one of the hardest thing. Just keep trying, don't get anxious and don't get stress cause that won't help you getting pregnant. Keep trying. Try to find out when you ovulate that will help you, but relax, it takes time for some women to get pregnant

Answer 8

every woman's body is different. some can reprouduce like rabbits and some it takes months..years...but don't give up. unless the doctor says other wise you still have that chance. and if you haven't seen a doctor then maybe you should and explain to them what is going on and make sure nothing is wrong with your body. even have your husband/boyfriend tested make sure it isn't him either. some men aren't fertile.

Answer 9

I don't think you should stop trying. I believe when the time is right it will happen for you. Stress doesn't increase the likelihood of pregnancy nor does pressing your mate about the issue, it should be as natural and enjoyable as possible.(besides, you want your child to be conceived out of love not charts and graphs) Look into some methods to raise fertility and wait for the little bundle to appear. :-)

Answer 10

Do you remember back in high school, when all the teachers and/or parents told you that only one time.. It all seems false now.. I am also TTC... Stay stress free.. Also have you tried charting your temperature.. go to www.fertilityfriend.com
it is an excellent website to help you know exactly when you are ovulating.... Keep Smiling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

Dont worry about it or you will be like me , with high blood pressure tryin to give my husband something I know he has longed for a long time , now we have to wait til the pressure goes down.Just relax and enjoy . Good luck to you