2006-11-30 11:32:41 · 22 answers · asked by Katrina F 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well....I am guessing your friend is young...the only thing you can do is hold her hand through the process, and not judge her for any decisions she makes concerning her future.
2006-11-30 11:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask if she's worried.
If she is, you help her out.
If she's not, you give her real information on pregnancy, birth control, and STDs. Then you help her out.
How do you help her out? Get her an appointment to see a doctor. Help her get there. Give her a ride or find her someone who'll take her.
Call Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-PLAN. They'll do a free pregnancy test and probably also test for STDs. If she's pregnant they'll counsel her on her options, and help her with whatever she chooses. If she's not, they'll give her free condoms, help her get birth control, and give her info on all the risks she's facing.
That's the best thing a friend could do.
2006-11-30 11:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to be honest with you there's nothing really that you can do. It obvious that is she's pregnant, continuing to have sex will not get her pregnant again is she's already pregnant. The best thing you can do for her is be therre for support. And through it all.....you learn from her mistakes so that you don't make the same ones. Being young and pregnant takes careers and goals alot longer to achieve.
2006-11-30 11:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by SueZq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all sex is safe during pregnancy unless the doctor says different.
If you mean having unprotected sex with multiple partners it does not matter if she is pregnant or not you need to talk to her and try to get her help she might end up with an std
2006-11-30 11:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by new mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to encourage her to STOP HAVING SEX. If she's not ready for the responsibility of a baby she shouldn't be having sex anyway. Try to give her as much support as possible and hope that she is not pregnant.
2006-11-30 12:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm new mommy ... :|
Im betting you put this in as your "friend" in case someone finds it who shouldnt. But regardless of who it is, youre both young... tell your parents. TELL them. They can help you make an educated decision. Fear comes from not knowing. Once youre more informed, you'll (or she) will understand the options you have. Hiding it just makes it worse, dont wait too long, the earlier the better. trust me
2006-11-30 11:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by ber439_0116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Katrina,
In this situation all you can do is be supportive of her. Abstinence untill marriage is what I go by. Brgin to instill that in her. Give her encouragement but whtaever you do... DO NOT MENTION AN ABORTION!!!!!!!!!!!! Abortion is only fair to one person which is the person making the desicion but not fair to the life that is getting murdered for not doing anything!
4rm Aaliyah
2006-11-30 13:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Babigurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old she is. if shes REALLY young...like 13-16 or something than talk to her about it and get her to take a test. If she 17+ (A RESPONSIBLE 17+) then try and get her to tell her mum or her aunt of dad or sister or brother or ... som1 older than her!
2006-11-30 13:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Yahmina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her as pack of condoms?
Pregnancy is not the only side effect of sex. There are lots of diseases that she is putting herself at risk from.
Please be a good example for her.
2006-11-30 11:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support her if she is that is a scary thing and help her thru it she will need someone no matter how much she says she doesnt.
and if it turns out she isnt then help her realize she needs to be safe everytime and that you would have to see her get pregnant becuase that would be realy hard on her and you care about your friends
2006-11-30 11:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋