You would like to be romantically involved with a woman, but she's not interested.
She is nice to you and says, "it's me, not you", it's really you, isn't it?
2006-11-30 11:02:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no woman has ever said that to me, it's just a line I've heard.
it's just a Q...
2006-11-30 11:11:01 · update #1
yes, I tried, twice to ask a question about you, and the yahoos wouldn't let me. I'm going back to work. I'll show them. l ol.
2006-11-30 11:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Joni J 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not necessarily you. When I first moved out of my parents house I was so glad to be FREE that I swore I would not see the same guy more then twice. It was a hard and fast rule and I stuck to it. I'd see a different guy each night of the week and I was up front with them about it too. Maybe she is just not ready to make any commitments right now.
2006-11-30 11:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by tas211 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell yeah its you, sista is just trying to take the easy way out but then that's when you back off an pretend she is not really there i mean still say hi in all but limit it and eventally she would notice it and probably began to like you because you are not showing any interest
2006-11-30 11:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If a woman says that, it's you. If Brad Pitt came to her doorstep, he wouldn't be hearing, "It's not you, it's me." This is what women do when they want to be nice and let you down easy. The good news is, she at least cares enough to truly not want to cause you any more pain than she has to. That's the bright side of this lame letdown. It does have a good heart behind it.
2006-11-30 11:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately!
2006-11-30 11:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by BB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessarily you. It does seem like a put off but sometimes women are not ready to be involved or are unable to open up just yet.
2006-11-30 11:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by sideways 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily.
I dated a guy once who was great, but for some reason, I just wasn't feeling him. There was absolutly nothing wrong with him, & when we broke up, my friends thought I was crazy. Definatly a case of "Its not you, its me".
2006-11-30 11:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, yes.
2006-11-30 11:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably both of you. There's no reason to be involved with someone like that.
2006-11-30 11:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's her conditioning that determines who she is attracted to. For example, she may like guys that remind her of her favourite uncle.
2006-11-30 11:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋