2006-11-30 10:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
...cross dressing for kicks is a very poor substitute for having a fulfilling relationship.
2006-11-30 11:14:14 · update #1
what do you mean by "stop me finding"?!? that doesnt make any sense. but i doubt its anybody's destiny to never find a wife/husband. everyone has the chance to. you just have to look around yourself. dont give up!
2006-11-30 10:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by give it to me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are'nt you jumping the gun a little? My Dad found his wife at 60 yrs. of age and have been married 25 yrs. Yes, there are some people that will stay single, and there is nothing wrong with that. If you're O.K. with it. If you choose to cross dress for kicks, that is not going to stop you( I would not do anything that you will regret later) Now is you took the cross dressing to the extreme, like changing your sexual identity to a total female, that might deter you, but then the options are you become lesbian and or find a husband :o) No body is going to stop you but you.
2006-11-30 18:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If cross dressing gives you kicks then maybe a wife you don't need. Really, if your interested in getting married just let it happen. Make sure and keep yourself open to possibilities. You never know when someone might just show up in your life. Join an organization, a bowling league or attend night classes. Something that will keep you out in the public, meeting new people. She's out there for you. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 18:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by JENNY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can use cross dressing as a substitute for a companion. I don't think you even understand cross dressing.
A compulsive cross dresser NEEDS to cross dress. When he cross dresses his brain releases these powerful neurotransmitters that give him a wonderful sensation of pleasure, well-being and self gratification. After a while he tries to quit but he can't. He's addicted. Then he tries harder and harder to achieve his High. After a while he develops a female alter-ego. He even give "her" a name. In one sense he falls in love with his alter ego, in another sense, he is just loopy. So he goes and has a sex change.. It really doesn't change anything. He is lonely and miserable.
I don't advise cross dressing as a means of solving your problems with female relationships.
2006-11-30 19:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you want to cross-dress... so just go for it!
Cross dressing will have no bearing on whether or not you find a wife, unless you make cross-dressing an obsession.
2006-11-30 18:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that addicted to cross dressing B.S. be yourself and you will find someone who likes you as you are. Lots of guys are closet cross dressers, even married men. If you take your fetish outdoors you are putting yourself at risk, not everyone is as progressive as you seem to be. Be careful, or be dragged behind a truck.
2006-11-30 23:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by j. a. prufrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not find yourself a wife who likes to do same..if cross dressing on your own is fun....ud have twice the fun if you do it with a partner.with internet access im sure you could find dozens of fruitcakes....i mean cross dressers
2006-11-30 19:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cross dress mate
2006-12-01 01:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if its NOT your destiny? you haven't lived your life yet, anything could happen
2006-12-01 13:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by vera lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try stop being the loser that it is clear you are fag boy.
2006-11-30 18:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by thomas d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋