whenever i make love with a man using condoms, this seems to suck up all my lubrication, i have even try using ky jelly but still after a while i am dry as a desert and it hurts, but it doesnt happen when we dont use the condom...why? and most importand what can i do?
2006-11-30 10:28:46 · 14 answers · asked by marian g 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
You obviously find them a very big turn off!
Try some superlube...;
2006-11-30 10:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The abbrasion of the condom and your lack of excitement about the condom are your main factors. Go to www.LoveSock.com and go to the Lube section ... Find a lube that is Anal comptible and then go to the Condom section and get condoms that are NOT lubricated (because combining to different lube brands can actually dry each other out).
2006-11-30 10:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by RM706 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either the type of condom, or the type of lube on the condom. Go with a water based lube as that won't affect the condom and it is nicer for the body.
Try a non-latex condom (Durex Avanti I believe are latex-free) as it may be that you have a slight reaction to latex that is causing you to dry up.
2006-11-30 23:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by junkmonkey1983 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it maybe that you are allergic to the lubricant, try sensitive ones. if not then try adding another water based lubricant. make sure it is compatible with condoms though as many can affect the protection,
my guess would be that you are allergic
2006-11-30 10:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite there is not any connection between them.... its sounds like after intercourse u seems to be tried.. n coz of that u ur eyes have been given dry. for affirmation.. why dont u try having intercourse.. without condom as quickly as.. nicely.. have ur lady take pill... for saftey.. in that way u can be certain whats the genuine reason at the back of dry eyes.. regardless of if its condom or triedness after intercourse...
2016-12-14 09:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens because your natural lube dries up quickley fromt he friction of the condom, And when you are not using one, the friction is less, therefor you arent so dry..
All I can say is try a different brand of lube, there are tons out there,
experiment with them, and have fun while your at it..
Hey it gives you and excuse to get it on!..lol
hope it helps!:)
2006-11-30 10:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are using the wrong ones, you can get very thin lubricated ones which will be better for you shop around.
2006-11-30 10:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if it could be something in them which "disagrees" with you. Have you tried different types? You can get special ones for if you're allergic to something in them (it's late I forget what the allergy is).
2006-11-30 10:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id use a differant make of condoms
2006-11-30 10:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by a m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a different kind or a different lubricant
2006-11-30 10:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋