I have a friend who does this constantly and I was just wondering if anyone else thinks it's okay to do this. She's constantly dropping the poor child off at other people houses so she can go out. It makes me mad cuz I'm not a babysitter and I'm not getting any f****in money for watching him. I like the child but I don't wanna watch him for days in a row. I have a life, too. I take care of my kids!!! My husband gets so aggravated that this child is always over.
Opinions please.
2006-11-30 10:28:28 · 9 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like someone needs to grow up and realize she has responabalitys id sit down and let her know how u feel if she gets mad then she was just usein u for a babysitter anyways and friends that are like that are not the kind id want anyways
2006-11-30 10:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by missmycoco 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once in a while, sure its fine. Even mommies need a break. But what shes doing is neglectful to the child, and takes advantage of your friendship. Put your foot down, and if you are at ALL concerned about the childs welfare, call social services.
2006-11-30 10:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 19:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by immich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea.. i would put my foot down and say enough is enough... I mean if she went out every so often it might be a different story... the way ur making it sound is that she goes out all the time. Have u talked about it to her? try and talk to her about how u have ur own family and mayb stretch the truth saying u have other plans. Does she spend ne time with her child, because that isn't good if she isn't... good luck! :)
2006-11-30 10:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine every now and then but all the time no. You need to tell her she needs to watch her own child she layed down and made him or her. It's her responsibility not yours.
2006-11-30 11:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start saying NO! it doesn't hurt. If they get mad then that's all they wanted you around for. Or you can always say "im gonna have to charge you girl, cause made this a habit".. I betcha she won't ask you again.
2006-11-30 10:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the next time she drop her child in your house, say NO.
tell her you cannot watch over her kid cause it is not okey anymore.
be frank and brave to tell the truth
2006-11-30 13:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is taking advantage. tell her no a few times and she will soon stop.
2006-11-30 10:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like this really makes you angry, so you should confront her. tell her just what you wrote, only maybe not so harsh.
2006-11-30 10:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋