my good friend seems to be mad at me a lot. she doesn't talk to me half as much as a year ago, and when i try to talk to her, she won't listen or talk. i wrote an apology letter to her for anything i might have done wrong, and she just crumpled it into a ball and threw it back at me. my mom told me that her parents are getting divorced, but my friend hasn't told me herself. i know that some of my other friends know about this though, and i am hurt. she wasn't mean before and i know she's not a mean person, and i know it must be hard for her w/ the divorce and everything, but i feel really hurt. what should i do, and how can i get her to talk to me??
2006-11-30 10:25:17 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well....i feel bad to....she just needs some space....
if i was there.i would help yall.....but u know...she is having a hard time because her two most important people in her life r getting divorced......she feels horrible......maybe when things cool down....she'll probably be nicer again next time.she just doesnt want to make u feel bad because of her.......thats probably y she hasnt told u anything.......i hope things go well...
I hope this works. :)
2006-11-30 10:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Maria; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to give her some space and try and let her no that if she needs someone she could go to u at anytime... If she really doesn't want to talk to u nemore then maybe she doesn't want to be ur friend anymore... I no, if ur in high school or even middle school, people change... They go there separate ways... she doesn't seem as though she would just leave u in the dust though. I am sure she is just going through a hard time.. so try and give her space and i am sure she will come around! Good luck! :)
2006-11-30 18:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your friend just needs some alone time.
I mean, if she keeps pushing you away so much. & maybe if she does need to talk to someone about it, she's already talking to her other friends about it. It's not a bad thing though, just because she won't talk to you about her problems. But if you really want her to, then let her know that you're there for her if she needs anything.
If she keeps acting this way though, just forget about it. Especially if it carries on for a few months sort of thing. Sometimes people do grow apart, & it's just a thing that happens, even if you don't want it to.
2006-11-30 18:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother too much. Let her cool down for sometime. When she feels tat nobody is caring about her, then you should help her and be by her side. Now she's not in a good mood to talk. And dont worry.
2006-11-30 18:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is hurt because the divorce, send her a X-mas card and tell your there for her if she need someone to talk to.Other then that just pray and let it go.
2006-11-30 18:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Nani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋