Okay my friend has been coming over and i'm starting to like him. He claims he's straight but people say he's bi and some say he's gay. Me i'm gay. I want to tell him I like him but I don't know how to tell him I like him. I want to tell him but I still want him to be friends with him. What should I tell him and when should I tell him? Or how can I tell that he's gay or bi?
2006-11-30 10:21:27 · 8 answers · asked by yugisdaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I already have massaged his upper body starting at his back and going to to his neck and back down playing with his nipples. I got all the way down to his belt and unbuckled it then he said he had to go pee then he came back and got on myspace like nutin happend
2006-11-30 10:56:56 · update #1
just say are u my best friend can u trust me with everything i do can i tell u everything if he says ya say i know ur my bf but i like u.
2006-11-30 10:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by carmela12345678910 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships are almost always destroyed by fatal attraction. There's a 50% chance of sucess in this type of relationship. What you need to do first is to find out if he's gay or bi or straight. Next be very subtle, ask him things like 'what sort of guys are you into' or something like that. Don't hint too much that you are interested though otherwise he'll get suspicious and most likely freak out on you and you don't want that to happen. If he is in fact gay or bi flirt a bit at first and if you too share general interests and are really close then all you have to do is determine whether he might feel the same.
Hopefully I've been helpful to you.
^^
2006-11-30 18:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Pandabat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oi.. it's a difficult one...
I think you should let him know very gently that you would like to be more than friends... this is tricky because you need to put it in a way that says 'if you're not interested in more, can we please just stay friends and forget I've ever said anything?!...'
anyway, unless you are willing to take the risk of losing him completely after saying it, then don't say a thing at all...
does that make sense?
2006-12-02 13:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell him because even if he is gay or bi he's not ready to tell you or doesn't want to for some reason, and he could be straight
2006-11-30 18:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cold ask him in a joking way "Are you gay?" then see what he would reply. Then tell him about your feelings. Its better to kno then just guessing.
2006-11-30 18:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should bE proud of your sexuality start off small lIke when u 2 r sitting down touch his thigh c how he react if he give u a smile that mean hes into it then get bigger like stroking hes hair back
2006-11-30 18:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by izabel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u believe he's gay ask him if he is? and if he is ask him out or wot ever u gays do...no offence
2006-11-30 18:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So much for the myth that all gays have gaydar.
2006-11-30 18:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋