i just had an abortion oct 26 and 2 weeks later i got my check up the sunday after my abortion i started birth control (ortho tri cyclen lo) and me and my boyfriend think im pregnant again. i messed up on one of my pills and i know they say its easier to get pregnant after the abortion. im nausea tired im gettin a little pain in my left side again and on top of that the first time i was pregnant i couldnt drink milk then after the abortion i was able to but now i cant drink milk again. what you think is wrong with me. now my boyfriend was gettin nausious and his face is gettin fat, he can sense alot of thing like pregnancy and he keep tellin me i am. can someone help me pleaseee!
2006-11-30 10:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by sweettastynjuicy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this time if im pregnant im keepin i dont care what happens ill jus have to suffer
2006-11-30 10:14:23 · update #1
i think you may be pregnant again but if you are you should keep this one because its gods way of telling you he wants a baby in your life. also getting so many abortions can mess up your system and when you are ready to have kids you may not be able to carry them good luck to ya
2006-11-30 10:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by brun!pinky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
After abortions, you're not supposed to have sex for at least 4 weeks to give everything a chance to heal. It takes a month at least for birth control to be effective and if you messed up on one of the pills you just might be pregnant again. Either see your healthcare provider or take a home pregnancy test. Good Luck with everything. (Don't let the haters make you feel bad either)
2006-11-30 10:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by BlairBear 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, I'm going to suggest to you that you get on Depo-Provera.. It's the shot they give you every 3 mths.. Some people just aren't good at taking pills and you should probably talk to your doctor about it... Your pain could be after effects of the abortion. Your best bet is to call your Doctor.. Good luck to you
2006-11-30 10:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kat0312 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can't usually sense when a woman is pregnant...it's possible you are, might be side effects though, could also be your imagination playing tricks on you! Birth control is not effective for 2-3 months after you start it, so if you just started it, that doesn't prevent pregnancy. My best advice is to take another test and ease your mind, and be very cautious until your birth control is in full effect :)
2006-11-30 10:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by az270890 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you know what this is what bothers me about abortion aside from the fact that its legalized murder, you had an abortion now your pregnant again so what did it do to keep you from being responsible? Nothing! so now if you keep this baby which i pray to heaven and all the angels you do, you will have killed a baby for basically no reason. lesson here: abortion isnt the answer, it never is.
2006-11-30 10:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not to sound judgemental or anything, but you and your boyfriend need to get yourselves educated on sex.
I am not sure where you heard that it is easier to get pregnant after an abortion. In fact the opposite is true.
Also guys don't usually gain weight in their face during a pregnancy. Due to the fact that they aren't pregnant.
Please please please take some Sex Ed. Classes.
2006-11-30 10:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you had sex it is possible you could be pregnant. Which figures, My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for months. You get pregnant and terminate it and get pregnant again. Isn't it wonderful how nature works. Good Luck to you.
2006-11-30 10:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to an ob gyn too find out soon so you can start your prenatal care.
2006-11-30 10:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm yea men dont usually sense your pregnant....while your pregnant they may put on weight "sympathy weight" but you should take a test or wait till your missed period...or you can go to your doctor
2006-11-30 10:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by sarah-bear 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You are pregnant.
2006-11-30 10:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋