I'm not hurting for sex or anything; the problem is that I'm married (and I'm not here to get bashed for cheating on my wife so please don't waste my or your time) and my wife knows everyone where I live. So I was actually thinking about going on Adultfriendfinder.com. Is it as easy as the ads say or am I better off just going to the club where I'm pretty much guaranteed to hook up.
2006-11-30 10:02:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I knew a guy friend who hooked up with someone from aff. It certainly wasn't a lasting sort of relationship, but I guess they got what they wanted out of it.
It's hilarious that despite you saying "don't bash me about it", everyone is! LOL
2006-11-30 10:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. adult friend finder's ads use models. yes i tried it. just to be curious, i did a search of men in my area, as well as a search of women in my area. the number of male ads were 19 times as many as women's ads. same thing with yahoo personals. insead if the clubs, go to the coffee houses. make yourself some business cards and hand them out. a better kind of girl is at the coffee house than the club. so in short, save your money.
2016-05-23 06:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First.... don't kid yourself in thinking you're guaranteed anything. If that were the case you wouldn't even be asking.
Second, my wife and I both have had good and bad luck with Adult Friend Finder. It's just another way to interact with other people with physical interest. But I would advise you to let your wife in on your intentions. First because you could loose everything and second because she just might want the same things you want!
2006-11-30 10:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um well im only 14 but my sister who is 24 has adult friend finder and all of the guys ive e ver met shes dated off there have been complete perverts the one she met at this club down the road from us is her current bf so clubs sound like the best way to go.
2006-11-30 10:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by samantha_lawson23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are not happy in your marriage to begin with if you are looking for some action on the side. Here is the best advice I can give you DIVORCE. She deserves better than you.
2006-11-30 10:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about swimming upstream. I won't give you any advice because I absolutely feel that what you are doing to your wife/relationship is wrong, but I will say that I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for on AFF (plenty of cowards..I mean cheaters on there), good luck with your marriage, and thanks for the 2 points.
2006-11-30 10:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to explain to your wife what you are planning to do and why
see what she says
maybe get divorced first, maybe after
the club is a better option, especially at 1 am
if you want to find your soulmate and not just get laid it becomes MUCH more difficult
think about what you want and why and how to get it, then jump, be nice and be careful with everybody
2006-11-30 10:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't bash you or judge you openly. Use any dating websites that are free, myspace, your job. Is that fair to her? Are you trying to cheat on her? I'm technically not bashing you. Just asking questions.
2006-11-30 10:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the club; AFI gonna cost $s, dunno price, those online sites are good for recent paroles and people healing after surgery! The chicks there are, mostly I don't know em all, fat, ugly & or stupid! In a club you can inspect the merchandice before!
Willy
2006-11-30 10:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it sounds pretty lame. clubs suck if you're looking for a quality chick. try coworkers and church groups. but get a divorce first
2006-11-30 10:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by Super G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋