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uhhh! my friend is constantly giving me advice. normally i wouldn't mind, but she gives BAD advice!!! and she gives advice when you don't want to hear it and when you just want her to listen. and she tries to prove you wrong everytime you speak. i've tried talking to her about it, but then she just finds some way to prove me wrong and make it sound like it's my fault she says stuff like tha. i always admit when i'm wrong, and this is pretty much the only place i give advise, and it's kinda wanted here. uhhh! help me out!

2006-11-30 10:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by nanerz 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

4 answers

Don't go to her with your problems. Find someone you can talk to that doesn't act like she does.

2006-11-30 10:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by doglady 5 · 0 0

Just all of the sudden tell her to shut up whenever she is trying to give advice and be like....listen here...i am so fricking tired of the way you give advice to me whenever i dont need or whenever im talking, but when i do need it you dont give good advice at all...and tell her that maybe she needs to understand and think about the situation the person is in. and if she tries to blame it on you tell her that you simply dont care that shes trying to blame it on you that you want her to stop giving the wrong advice and hurting people. Give her some examples of how she is messing things up when she gives adivce and show her some or tell her some ways to improve. and if she doesnt like that and gets snotty over it...tell her you were trying to help and that you didnt want to make her look like an idiot about it anymore and that you were trying to be her true friend and not let her get talked about and laughed about for giving bad advice.

2006-11-30 18:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by CaitiBear 1 · 0 0

tell your friend that she gives bad advice and tell her if she can't help you then don't say anything just listen and let u vent. tell her the truth and don't cover it up

2006-11-30 18:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by shaleenbabes 1 · 0 0

Lol....
Duh..........
Sound like she give you wrong advise in wrong time.
Be yourself and just Ignore her Bad advise and take the good one...
Believe me......

2006-11-30 18:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Answer 2 · 0 0

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