I am a female but I am a virgin. Can you describe the first time you had sex. I am not a pervert but I am writing a book and it is about a teenage girl who has sex with a lot of guys and regrets it later. This book is for teen girls who have sex at a young age and just throw away the beautiful gift of being a virgin. I am going to start to book out with her first sexual experience and since I am a virgin, I won't know what to write. And I want to make it sound realistic so I want to ask someone who experienced it.
Please give detail because if you write just that it hurt, you won't be chosen as the best answer.
2006-11-30 09:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No one here will honestly give good details so you should maybe google virgin stories and I read what everyone else wrote and you are not getting what you asked for.
2006-11-30 10:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ok, I am a writer too. First things first, as a writer you may not realize this, but if you are speaking about something you have no experience with, no matter how much detail anyone gives you about this, it will still feel and sound fake when you write it. Readers know that. It's like a man trying to write about a woman falling in love, it sounds like a guy talking, not a woman. You can tell that.
Secondly, I doubt very much that anyone is going to describe for you their first sexual experience. That is not exactly public knowledge nor should it be. If you want to write a book for teen girls about not giving themselves away then do it from a positive angle! To write about a negative experience as if to say, "you don't want this to happen to you," feels like preaching and nobody wants to hear that.
Why not write a story about a girl who has a lot of peer pressure but doesn't give in to it and ends up in a wonderful relationship with the right person and how she has a great self esteeem and self respect? That would make being a virgin look much more attractive to any girl considering giving herself to some guy.
I'm not trying to tell you how to write your book, just offering a tip from one writer to another.
2006-11-30 17:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by alicesarbonne 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont want to say i regret my first time but, i kind of do i was only sixteen, and he was 23. Of course he was more expierenced. And it did hurt because he was huge like 9" and i wasnt really pleased because i was scared. I wish that i could have waited and my husband be my first, because after the first guy i was with i was like if i did it with him i can do it with my nxt boyfreind, and so i did. But i did get expierenced from them. And i guess i did it because everyone else had done it, unfortuantly they all have like 2-3 kids they all started having sex when they were like 12-13. So i was like wow im sixteen and i havent done it besides i was curiuos.
2006-11-30 18:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by My hubby and my baby r my life ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only females can be called as Virgin and nothing is for men. If you want to write a book on expereince ask you BF to help
2006-11-30 18:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is painfull and not romantic....well at least my first ime wasent....i regret it and i wish i had waited....i felt like i just wanted to get it over with since everyone around me was doing it and i felt like the odd one out....bad reason to do it i know,.....i wish when i tell younger girls to wait they would actually understand what i mean....i mean people told me to wait but i dident listen and now i wish i had.
2006-11-30 17:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by greyc143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wll i dont know i am like that myself but it dosent hurt i know this cause of my friends told mt that is dosen
2006-11-30 17:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts like he** and u should wait.
2006-11-30 17:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by chey chey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋