my best friend suddenly got a boyfriend and now shes acting all popular i feel like telling her boyfriend that she cheated just so i can have my old friend back im tired of feeling so sad and mad. i dont know what to do. should i still be friends with her??
2006-11-30 09:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by gansta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should not tell him because they will only be mad at you. She will come around. He will dump her or be done with her on his own. And who do you think she is going to come running to.
2006-11-30 09:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by May_May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Soccer is cool,
I know what you are talking about. BOTH of my best freinds in the world have boyfriends and I really think that my friends and their bfs are the nicest people, but sometimes, I feel like they act popular and stuff. I don't have a boyfreind, so I feel left out when they talk about having boyfriends. The truth is, I don't want a boyfriend. But I do want my freinds back. I think, honey, that you should definatley confront her about it and tell her how you feel. If she is a true friend, like my freinds, she will understand. If she isnt a real friend, then you should definatley expand and meet some new people who can take her place and wont act the way she is acting. Also, don't tell her boy freind she is cheating on him, that is a really low down thing to do, and if you really care about her, let her have her fun. You sound young, so I am guessing that this relationship (like most) wont last long. If she has any common sense at all, she will eventually come around and realize what she is doing. Just ignore the problem for now. This may be hard at first, and you may need time to recover, but eventually you will pick yourself off the floor and move on. Good luck sweety!
--Liss
2006-11-30 17:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Penelope ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know what you're talking about. Girls act as though their boyfriends are the greatest thing. Explain to her and if it doesn't work, end the friendship. That's what I did. I talk to her every now and then and she still doesn't understand where I'm coming from. If she's a good friend, she'll understand. Otherwise she can learn the hard way! And don't ruin their relationship.. That will make things worse. Don't be low!
2006-11-30 17:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's acting all stuck up cause she's got a man, you need to dump her. Find you a new friend or maybe a boyfriend. Plus if he dumps her, she'll be back.
2006-11-30 17:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tristen T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is acting all popular and preppy like sum girls do when they have a bf,than it is best to not mess with her.If she is really your friend,and if you don't talk to her...she will start to talk to u again.
2006-11-30 17:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him she cheated will blow up in your face.if her relationship is new give it time, you will get your friend back if she is your friend.sometimes it happens, even to older people. give it time, you never know it may not last. just let her know you are her friend, and that you still would like to hang out.
2006-11-30 18:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by sparklesevilcarebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that. Then your friend will just be sad and take it out on you if she finds out.
2006-11-30 17:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by UH OH iiT`S J* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself! If you really care about her. let her have her fun. if the guys a jerk your prob. the one she'll run too, why lie and lose her friendship forever? Take it easy and it will work out.
2006-11-30 17:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by gippen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to lie to get your friend back, you are not really her friend.
That's how life is. We all move on from childhood things when we become adults and more mature.
2006-11-30 17:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be friends with her!!!!
Put yourself in her shoes.
Wouldn't you be happy to have a boyfriend.
You woud want her to be happy for you.
I know you miss your friend but are you jealous????
2006-11-30 17:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋