I just had my first kiss today, with my ew boyfriend. I"ve had one other bf but it wasn't serious, it was mostly an "I'll see you at school" thing. As soon as I got home from school I calle my best-friend to tell her the newsa, and she calls me a s-l-u-t! What do I do?
2006-11-30 09:27:21 · 18 answers · asked by Katerina Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nevermind. I just found out that her grandmother got taken off life support, and she was really jealous that I had a boyfriend because the guy she really likes deosn't like her. He supposedly likes me.
2006-11-30 10:03:55 · update #1
Sticks and stones will break your bones, but names will never hurt you. Not a real good freind I'd say. You need to find better friends.
2006-11-30 09:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend sounds jealous, because you didnt sleep with the whole football team, you kissed your new boyfriend, which is what boyfriend and girlfriends to do each other. I would consider not talking to your best friend for a couple of days and let her realize what she said to you, because that was completly unacceptable. If you dont want to not talk to her for a couple of days, let her know how you feel, express the fact that it made you angry that she said that to you. honestly, if your best friend is going to call you a ****, she doesnt really sound like a best friend at all. hope everything works out for you, good luck.
2006-11-30 09:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. It sounds to me that your friend is either jelous, or she's not really a good friend. Tell her that you don't like it when she calls you names like that, especially if she's the first person you told about the kiss. Friends shouldn't put eachother down, and if it continues, I would consider not talking to her for a while, if not at all.
2006-11-30 09:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to not in any respect call my chum words like those. until eventually she deliberately slept with my boyfriend or something. So no, you likely did not deserve being referred to as those. You instructed her you loved him, and she stated "that is effective" did not she? i imagine the placement is that she wasn't taking you heavily and did not imagine you would truly bypass out with him. perchance it would want to were better ideal that you'll be able to invite her first in case you may want to, yet that is exceeded. Have a communique which include her and tell her that you does no longer have finished it in case you would universal it would want to harm her. also be constructive to inform her that you probably did not recognize issues might want to progression so quickly, and that you've been too stuck as a lot as invite her permission. She looks to have some anger administration issues, so mind-set her heavily and stay away from battling. in case you adult males are (or were) acquaintances, then you fairly 2 might want to be able to finish this communique. that is unlike you slept with him adversarial to her desires or something.
2016-10-08 00:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
katrina... Your friend may be just joking around with you ,Saying Like oh your such a **** .. . or perhaps she is jealous and scared of losing her best friend to a guy . Or perhaps she was eyeing your boy for her self .
I think you should ask her girl to girl and face to face what she meant . and tell her that boys will come and go but best friends are hard to find .
2006-11-30 09:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it really hard. Are you a ****? If you are one then maybe she just doesn't want you to get hurt or for ppl to talk about you behind your back.
If your not then she might just be jealous. Especially if you attract much more attention than her. If that's the case then help her get more guys and tell her to stop dissing you!
Don't be worried about it though. Just be yourself and if that's slutty than so be it. As long as your happy.
2006-11-30 09:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by tarhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she called you a s-l-u-t then maybe she is really not your (best)friend or she is just mad at the fact that you got your kiss today or maybe it is both
2006-11-30 09:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Im Just Me♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, she is not your friend. Best friends don't act like that. She is probably just jelaous. Time to dump her, why would you want to be friends with someone like that!
2006-11-30 09:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by funbobbi22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock her out tomarrow. Then kiss her boyfriend.
2006-11-30 09:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let her call u that drop her n do wat u do cuz she aint nothing n she jus tryn 2 say that 2 make her feel better mayb shes that real sl.ut or she might jus heard rumors but try 2 get the answers y she callled u that
2006-11-30 09:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by girlygurl22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋