my wife fells that she got marrie to young and that we lost the spark.
2006-11-30 09:27:13 · 18 answers · asked by jrgimp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand your question very well, and I wish both of you good luck on this one.
Maybe she did get married too young and the sparks are no longer flying, but you two still have a chance to survive it and it is going to take patience and time. It is not going to happen overnight.
I hope that you two sit down and discuss everything over a romantic dinner served with wine.
Happy Holidays
2006-11-30 15:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old your wife is, but many things can make her act this way. Hormonal if she is 30 or better. Bored with the sex life if you all have been married for a long time. Try doing a little romance (dinner,flowers,etc.) or simply try to open up the lines of communication, she might just tell you what is bugging her. Depression effects woman this way and I hate to say it but when a partner is being unfaithful they start to behave this way too. There are a lot of possibilities, but only she is going to be able to answer them for you. I hope this helps a little.
2006-11-30 09:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a few years every marriage loses spark, this is normal, you don't have the passion! That's what marriage is all about, it starts with passion and then goes into a deeper kind of love. If you can except it, your marriage will work, if not you will continue to look for that passion again and again! So start courting your wife all over again, maybe that will help? Good luck!
2006-11-30 09:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you two should talk about sex.. is there maybe something she would like to try? don't be judgmental tell her you will both take turns telling of fantasies you both have.. maybe she just doesn't want the same old same old.. spice it up.. But really she may not want to leave you.. don't listen to that crap.. first try asking her about sex and things she may want to try.. then read up on the stuff she says get into it and try it.. it may be the best thing you ever do.. good luck..
2006-11-30 09:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she ?
Do you satisfy her the most ?
Do you use sex toys ?
Do do you foreplay more ?
Do you wait for her to cume ?
These are questions you need to ask yourself...
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2006-11-30 09:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to marriage counseling before it is too late and she leaves you. It can really help get the problems solved and the spark back in the marriage.
2006-11-30 09:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Robin N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to say, but your wife wants out of the marriage. She is probably cheating on you, but even if she is not, she no longer loves you.
2006-11-30 10:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is bored and wants a change.
2006-11-30 09:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out why she feels this way. Sometimes people go through phases. Support her.
2006-11-30 09:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur wife dosnt love u anymore
i think she is looking for another man
2006-11-30 09:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋