i'm pregnant with my first child and my bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. He's told me that he's not cheating on me but I have a VERY reliable source that has told me there is a lot of sexual flirting going on between him and a co-worker. I also found some nude piccs of her in his e-mail account. What should I do?
2006-11-30 09:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the other girl does know about me and that I'm pregnant and she is also married
2006-11-30 09:43:52 · update #1
you know the truth....you have the proof with the nude pics.
What does your heart tell you to do......
What did he say about the pics?
Is it believable?
First off if he is lying.....how can you have a future with him...if you are going to have to doubt his every move?
You have to think of what is best for you and your baby.
Best wishes
2006-11-30 09:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are a whole lot different with a baby on it's way. Your priorities have got to change and your first priority is this baby--not him. Cheating is an integrity issue, not an attraction or a desire nor does it have anything to do with you. There is more to your relationship than what any of us on here know about and it's up to you whether you want to sort it or not.
2006-11-30 17:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to print the picture and ask him why she sent it to him. Obviously there is something going on so you do need to confront him. If he still won't come clean then you should try to catch him in the act! Then you will have enough proof to let him go because he is disrespecting you and your unborn child.
2006-11-30 17:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do we know you're pregnant with HIS baby?
Your reliable source might be the one emailing the pictures.
If you don't trust someone, why do you stay so long, and why become pregnant with his child?
2006-11-30 17:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL FIRST OF ALL SORRY!
NO ONE CAN TELL U WHAT U SHOULD DO. U NEED TO LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. FLIRTING IS NOT CHEATING I NO IT STILL HURTS. I WOULD CONFRONT HIM ON THIS E-MAIL THING THAT WOULD REALLY P*** ME OFF. I WOULD MAYBE EVEN GO AS FAR AS TO CONFRONT THIS OTHER WOMAN. DOES SHE NO ABOUT YOU? IF SO ITS GIRLS LIKE THAT THAT REALLY P*** ME OFF CAN'T THEY GET THERE OWN MAN Y DO THEY NEED TO MESS W/ ONE THAT IS TAKEN?
IT IS POSSIBLE TO FORGIVE IF YOU REALLY WANT TO. I HAVE BEEN IN A SIMILAR SITUATION AND CHOOSE TO FORGIVE, U JUST DON'T WANT TO BECOME HIS DOOR MAT.
2006-11-30 17:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by ROSIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until after you have your baby, then you should decide if you want to keep on living with a man that will cheat on you and put your life in harm way,you and your baby deserve better.good luck
2006-11-30 17:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his behind out of the house and find someone better.
2006-11-30 17:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kick that fool to the curve and take care of your baby.
2006-11-30 17:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once a cheater always a cheater..... you should move on with your life and kick him aside
2006-11-30 17:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!!!!!!
2006-11-30 18:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by : ) !@#$%^&* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋