what is the most sexiest clothing i can wear at home without my mom fiding out(underneath my clothes andim 13 years old when i go buy panties in a store what will i say to the casheir???
2006-11-30 09:21:45 · 14 answers · asked by i wanna be a grl 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
like find cute underwear that isn't to far out there(in case your mom finds them) and if you buy them, the cashier probaly wont say a thing, but if they do just say something like their for my sister, my mom told me i had to go get them, or my girlfirend wanted new underwear, or fu ck you its none of your business, hope that helps,
2006-11-30 09:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would go with some lacey camisoles (thin, strappy tank-tops) Or a cute trainer bra, under a thicker shirt, a small cup bra (like an A-cup) would be just fine. Lacey undies, and cute girly panties are good too, and as long as you don't wear spandex, no one will know. Garter belts are also a good option, especially under baggy pants. And about buying in a store, who cares, people buy weird things all the time, the cashier has probably seen it all, and your the customer, they don't need to know, as long as you have the money, if the casheir does ask questions, just say it's for your sister, or your cousin or something. I hope that one day you can tell your mom the truth, and not hide it all the time.
PS. It's perfectly normal- and it's great that you're not surpessing yourself.
2006-11-30 17:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by adriesty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people in today's world would not even give you buying panties a thought. Buy a box of chocolates or a single rose if you are that nervous . . . or a condom!
If it's the feel of the silk that you like, how about getting some silk sheets in a deep sexy burgundy color and you'll have that sexy feel against the sexiest outfit you own - yer own birthday suit! Also get a soft fake fur or flannel throw for your bed. How could anyone suspect that you were into anything more than a great feeling bed. If you buy your own, mom would probably appreciate it and know that you are growing up and want to keep your room clean and neat (hopefully that's true.) Do you have a grandmother that adores you? I hope so. We make great confidants.
2006-11-30 18:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by vancouverdew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you need to talk to your mom about how you feel. I have no clue how she'll react at first, but she will eventually come around. She's your mom, she will still love you no matter what. It's better for her to find out now than later when she pulls a pair of girl's panties out of the laundry basket, and wonders where they came from. The first thought that will come into her head will probably be that you are sexually active, or swiping girl's underwear at school. Either way, you'll find yourself in a ton of trouble. And if you come clean then, she'll be hurt that you couldn't talk to her, mad that you lied and tried to hide it, and you'll probably get into twice as much trouble for sneaking around. Honesty is the best policy, even is touchy situations like this.
If you want to feel feminine and girly, try lace, satin, or silk panties. Not only do they feel good against your skin, they also are the ultimate in womanly underwear. Style doesn't matter, as long as you are comfortable in them. Which mean no thongs or g-strings that can pull and pinch areas that girls don't have to worry about.
If the sales girl looks at you weird, ignore her. If she asks a question, tell her it's none of her business. Or just say that you are buying them for someone else, and leave it at that. You aren't under any obligation to satisfy their curiosity. Just pay for your purchase, say thanks, and leave.
2006-11-30 17:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to engage in this behavior please take some precautions!
It is very important to remember that you should NEVER suggest or give in to any suggestion from an older man or woman about any kind of touching or other very personal act. If you get any attention of this kind, RUN AWAY VERY FAST. A pedophile will really mess up your head for the rest of your life.
Cross dressing is NOT homosexual behavior. Many men who are VERY straight like to do this. It's because they desire the attention that they see girls getting, or that sexy women get in our society. Some also really like the way silky or lacy things feel on. The only real reason cross dressers need counseling is because of the guilt and stress of trying to keep their secrets.
If you get a weird look from the cashier or your Mom just say it was for a bet, then give a big grin, like you know you're gonna win. Confidence is the key.
If your Mom or Dad keeps noticing and you think they are concerned, confide in them, unless you think she or your father might hurt you.
If they talk to a counselor they will find out that this isn't something really bad to worry about, and it doesn't require counseling. In fact, counseling can't "cure" it. Just like it can't cure the fact that someone prefers chocolate to lemon flavor.
I will repeat: It is very important to remember that you should NOT suggest or give in to any suggestion from an older man or woman about any kind of very personal act. If someone wants to touch you in private places, or if you get any attention of this kind, RUN AWAY VERY FAST. A pedophile will really mess up your head for the rest of your life.
2006-11-30 21:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby i understand you want to be aGIRL but u are way too young too be doing the things that ur doing,you ncan not change who you are but if u dont like certain things about you can change lots, okay maybe your NOT TOO YOUNG because if thats how u want to be than thers nothin no one can do to stop it but u also gotta understand that if ur gonna do it u can not worry about what anyone thinks about u if u like panties buy them who cares what the cashier thinks do it because u want to.... oh and to answer ur question u can find lots of things but why hide it theyll find out anyway
2006-11-30 17:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Deyonne W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait.... who goes out and buys sexy underwear for their sister? that would never work as an excuse! i think you're more of a creep if you said that to the cashier than if you were buying them for yourself, which don't get me wrong, IS pretty flippin' creepy!
2006-11-30 17:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Deerskin45 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the cashier they're for a girlfriend. meanwhile you should probably tell your mom. but make sure you're ready to tell or she won't be ready to hear it.
2006-11-30 17:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gayle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from that. You need to go see a counseler and talk to them about the problem before it gets worse.
2006-11-30 17:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by paigeamj 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
GET A LIFE
2006-11-30 17:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by seanachirico 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋