I wanted to have a girl so bad. Now that I am pregnant for a few months I went to the doctor and found out it was a boy. I am heartbroken and sad. Should I give this one up for adoption. I never wanted a boy I wanted a girl and my husband wants to keep the boy. I dispise it inside me and cry because it is a boy and it will never be a girl. I am starting to hate my unborn child
2006-11-30 09:14:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You should be more concerned with the health of your unborn child than the sex. There is always a reason for every thing....including the sex of your children.
2006-11-30 09:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way. Maybe the reality of it is that you really don't want ANY child right now. A child (boy or girl) is a blessing. If you don't have it within you to love a child no matter if they are a boy or a girl, maybe you should put him up for adoption. On the other hand, maybe you should get some help with your issue before your son is born so that you can be a good mother to him. it is selfish to think only of your needs over the life of a child.
I am not trying to be rude, just telling you the truth.
2006-11-30 09:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by No Perm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same answer I already gave...
SHAME ON YOU!!! You should absolutely and unquestionably be ashamed for posting this question even once, and now you've done it twice!!!
Of course it will never be a girl, but then again, you'll never be a boy, will you? That may be the ALL TIME STUPIDEST reason to hate someone...especially someone who is going to love YOU unconditionally. Imagine if you were born to someone who hated you, just because you're female?
You need to seek psychiatric help. I say that in all honesty and seriousness. It is not normal to dispise your unborn child just because they have body parts you weren't expecting.
I will pray for you.
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Okay, Wifey, I just looked at the rest of your questions.
Really...For real. You need to seek psychiatric help. You have some very serious problems that can potentially be addressed with medication. Please, for the sake of your child and your marriage, find a doctor who can help you. Bring print-outs of the questions you've posted so he can understand.
2006-11-30 09:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is keep the child that you have and then when you are ready to have another one go adopt a child that needs a home. That you have a 100% chance that it is going to be a girl. Other than that nobody can save you. But may the powers above help that little boy that is growing inside your cold body.
2006-11-30 09:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy what ever the sex not heart broken. What you have said is shocking. If you put the baby up for adoption you will regret it,for sure
Because it's a BOY!!! That is very selfish!!!
If you would have said because you have no money/no house/health problems etc etc(all the bad things in life) then I would have said maybe your right but NOT BECAUSE IT'S A BOY!!!!!!!
There are people out there that can't have kids and would love to be your shoes.You should be more grateful!!!!!!
2006-11-30 09:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness honey, you should be happy that you were blessed enough to have a child in the first place and hope that it's born healthy. Do you know how many people would kill to be in your position? If you need to talk, IM me sweetie.
If you want a girl try for another later on.
2006-11-30 09:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take a needle and stick it in the tip of a pencil eraser... then positioned a string thew the needle and carry it over her wrist. If it is going up and down its a boy, if it is going decrease from side to side its a woman. We did it to my mom and it confirmed that she had had a woman, which exchange into me, then a boy, which exchange into my brother, then it stopped, that fluctuate into each and all the youngsters she had had! We tried each and all the ladies human beings who had infants on the BBQ and it in no way had a pretend answer!!!
2016-10-04 13:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Have the child and see how things go. If you don't like him, then ignore him or divorce your husband. You shouldn't feel bad about having a boy, be happy that you are able to have kids. After having the boy, then try again. There is no advantage to life, maybe he will be your favorite child, you never know.
well..doctors are nto always right...my friends doctor said that she is a boy when she was in her moms stomach but when she was born they found out she was a girl...nobody truly knows yet until you have the baby...no lie!
2006-11-30 09:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Settle down. It's just your hormones that are causing your extreme reaction. You will be fine when the baby gets here. You will love it and wonder why you were so upset.
You may want to talk to your doctor about your feelings. He will tell you the same thing, and maybe he can help you deal with the feelings until your hormone levels are better.
2006-11-30 09:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are blessed to have a child. You should think more positive thoughts because this child will be a tremendous asset to you. Keep it and you try and focus on the goodness the miricale that you have inside of you.
2006-11-30 09:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by liordoron 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋