I move countries almost every year (!) and because of this I have no best friend. It hurts so much to start in a new school and see that everyone already has that special someone. There was a great new girl that arrived the same day as me but she was in only one of my classes and I hardly get to talk to her anymore. I do have friends and all, but no one that I can go to. Surprisingly, all the new kids this year have quickly picked out their 'BFFS' and I have not got one.
I'm a freshman in high school and I just moved to a totally new country (Saudi Arabia). Who do I have to go to for help and understanding? (Please don't say parents, I love mine, but I need someone who'll be there for me during school).
All the nice people are in hardly any of my classes. There was another really nice new girl a few days ago, but she's in only one class of mine! What luck! :^(
What do I do?
2006-11-30 09:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by [A] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get involved in some clubs AND afterschool activities
join track, drama club, etc
2006-11-30 09:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Kind of know how you feel look i moved to Indy from Chicago and it was a big change for me because i had spend my first year of high school in Chicago and i had already maid all of my friends and i moved here where its all farm and didn't know any one the one girl i got to know is going to Mexico and i don't know if she will ever come back but there is one thing i learned look I'm a senior now and high school is all about drama and there are gonna be people that come in to your life and just as easy as they came in they will leave so don't go out and look for that one person they will come to you and if you have a friend it doesn't matter if you know them all that much talk to them vent and if they don't care or tell some one that they shouldn't have its OK that's the only way that you will learn how to chose a good friend form a bad friend don't ever think you don't have friends theire is always gonna be that one person who will come in to your life and you will know that he/she is always gonna be ther for you don't worry if that girl is only in one of you classes I'm gonna tell you i have one friend and i only have one class with him and we are great friends we fight but in the end we always laugh at the stupid stuff we fight about and we only have one class so you never know she might be you closest friend you just don't know it yet well OK hope it help bye bye
2006-11-30 17:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by hele_val_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're in high school. It will be extremely hard. I was a freshman just last year, toughest 1st week at school ever.
What I did was just sat down with someone who was by themselves at lunch, stared at him, and started talking lolz.
A year later, that same dude is one of my best friends who also introduced me to a whole gang of people!
Also, during classes, try your hardest during group projects to really get to know the people in your class. Start with small things, like asking someone for a piece of paper, and start from there. Soon it will the easiest thing in the world, trust me. Try anything, sports meetups, after school clubs, etc etc.
I'm sure you'll make best friends out of your friends if you really pay attention to them. And hang out lots. You'll feel a lot more comfortable around them, and vise-versa.
2006-11-30 17:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in a club u enjoy doing and u'll make friends. Don't try to force people to b ur friend. Just join a club u like and say hey and talk to people and u'll make friends
2006-11-30 17:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wil be your friend and if you move you can still talk to me i will add you to my list
2006-11-30 17:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by funkymonkey3310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋