what would u do if ur child came home baaling because people at school r teasing her?

Question

also if 1 of her class mates put gum on her and u went to the shool and after3 weeks nothing has happend

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear she has to go through this. Talk her through it. Make sure you talk to the principal. If the school won't do anything, go above their heads. Also, try to talk to the parents or show up at the school and talk to the child that did this yourself. Just make sure you explain to your daughter that there is nothing wrong with her, just some people make fun of other people because they don't like themselves. Good Luck!

Answer 2

First off, schools take bullying much more seriously than they did even 10 years ago, so you should have some recourse. Speak to her teachers, and her principal as well. Make sure that you are cool-headed and practical when you do, so that they will take you seriously. Keep documentation of the incidents--most schools now have harassment policies that are designed to prevent the situation that your daughter is in now. And the school should also be required to tell you about any discipline enforced as a result of the harassment.

Also, try to get your daughter in extra-curricular activities, maybe some that aren't tied in to the school. You'll want her to have some friends that she can fall back on--there's honestly no way to foolproof the system, kids are made fun of every day, so you need to get her to make some friends so that she won't place as much emphasis on the kids who are mean. Best of luck to her.

Answer 3

I am a girl myself, and I've been made fun of at times. Everyone gets made fun of at school, it's part of school. I get sad sometimes too, but I learn to realize it is part of life.

Of course, some people are made fun of more than others. If this is the case for you daughter, put her in some extracurricular activities - something that will bring up her confidence so the teasing won't hit her so much. Also, go to the school and complain about it. But, make sure you try to remain anonymous. If you don't, the teasing most likely will increase.

Don't take her out of the school, though. (unless it gets violent) This part of life is the time when hormones are crazy and some people seem to find comfort in making fun of others. She needs to learn how to not let everything pierce her heart, and also how to stand up for herself. It must be sad as a parent to watch your child come back from school crying, but believe me a lot of parents are seeing that. And, in the real world it will only increase. So, moving her from school to school won't do much. What will happen when you are not always there to do this stuff?

I know, it's sad, but it's part of life. There is certain things that you want to but can't control in your daughter's life. Try those things, and it will help out. I'll warn you though, there will be days that she will come back home crying cups of tears.

Answer 4

Find out if these bullies are picking on other kids as well. If so, get a group of parents together and come up with a strategy. Attend a PTA meeting and bring up the issue. Let your daughter know you are fighting for her, and give her frequent pep talks to boost her confidence.

Answer 5

if it becomes serous and no one still does something about it, id assume you could talk to the school board or someone in charge, (higher then the princapal) because school is supose to be a safe place for kids to go not somewhere they go n get picked on n have gum put in there hair. but befor you do that you have to really make an atempt to get them to do something then contact the school board n tell them you tried n they still do nothing. and dont listen to the person that posted befor me, there jus an azz lol

Answer 6

Speak to the teachers and the principal. Teasing can scar a child for life, and should be taken seriously, especially if it is widespread or ongoing.

Answer 7

report the children who are doing the teasing as bullies to the teachers and the school principal, talk to your child about making other friends

Answer 8

This is just part of growing up.
Teach your child to stick up for themselves
in a non-violent manner.
Visiting a councilor could help you both cope with
the bullying. They may give you tips and tricks.
Also google
Childhood bullying.
good luck

Answer 9

talk 2 the principal or put her in a different school

Answer 10

try understanding why people tease her at school... you need to be sensitive to her answers. how old is she??? please take care of her from right now, otherwise she will lose confidence and will not grow up to be a confident person. If nothing helps, try keeping her home for some days and train her better and send her to some other school... but please do not put up with such things and dont spoil her life....

Also, i think she is not able to fight for herself... please show more confidence in her and teach her to fight back... PLEASE HELP HER HELP HERSELF...