I'm 37 and I'm from CA. My husband wants to move to Augusta, GA *(Orig from Iowa) There doesnt seem to be much to do there other than eat at buffets, look at muesums, and shop at Walmart. I feel younger than I look and it just seems there's nothing to do there unless a person wants to start a family and i doubt that's going to happen anytime soon. We've been married 9 years but he made the decision all by himself to take a job offer there and didnt wait even a week (after we got back from visiting there) to accept the job and he told me he's leaving and if I want to come with him, then i will. All my family is here and i'm emotionally detached from my husband. Someone give me advice??????
2006-11-30 07:51:36 · 6 answers · asked by cottontail34@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since it looks as if you've already decided to divorce him (I read your recent question in the "Divorce" category) I don't know what sort of helpful advice to give.
2006-12-04 04:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kraftee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your married you should make decisions together. It's not a good sign that he made this one alone. However, I agree with the guy who wrote that you should at least try it. Being in a new place with just your husband may strengthen your marriage. Stay positive! You can find a new job as well and once you start meeting people you will discover new things to see and do. It's new and exciting and full of posibilities if you look at it this way. You and your family will always stay in contact and worse case scenario...you can always move back. Just give it an honest try.
2006-12-04 02:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by stormy_one67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all depending on what you're used to. I moved from an area that has a climate extremely similar to GA, to a very dry and windy climate. Now my skin is constantly flakey, my hair feels like straw, and my sinuses are miserable because they stay dried out all the time. You'll just have to judge for yourself. It's GOT to be better than going north where you have to worry about ice collapsing your roof or snow piling up so you can't get out your door. Ugh!! All that cold....YUCK!! Good luck, keep your mind open and don't forget to check the historical sights around the area. There are beautiful places and interesting things to see all over that part of the country.
2016-05-23 05:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you please but hey now you have something to look forward to if you move to GA like seeing the family on holidays and such try someting new yes decisions should be made together and you can always come back with or without him if you really dont like it. you will always have family no matter where thier at they will always accept you back
2006-11-30 08:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Gabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are lucky, mine took a job in China without consulting me, at the same pay he was making here!
2006-12-03 16:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever makes you happy.
these kind of decisions should be made together.
obviously he has moved on, with no consideration for you and your feelings.
2006-11-30 07:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋