2006-11-30 07:49:07 · 48 answers · asked by broj7400 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get an education and a nose job.
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silly question gets a silly answer
2006-11-30 07:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think she is insecure within herself! She is verbal attacking you which is called abuse.
When women don't get their way, sometimes, they will attacked and crushed you so far down spiritual, hoping that you don't see the whole picture of what is going on in her life.
She married you, so she lied telling you that you are ugly and stupid, it just an abusive way to get you down, and give your self a pity party, and kill all of your self esteem!
Some women can be so mean and hateful. Look back when you guys were dating, what was her behavior like, and why did you guys get married.
Are you just a paycheck for a free ride? Ask yourself first, and be mentally ready to confront her! After all, she has already successfully gotton the best of your ability to keep your head up high.
Cut the free benefits, and then see how far she will go, or start just being a wife is suppose to be!
You take care of your self. And not to cheat or anything, but give your wife very good reasons why she should hang on this special guy in her life!
Get the book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands read it your self, and then demand she should do the same, if she wants to savage her marriage to you, and be accountable for her own actions and behaviors!
Best of Luck!
2006-11-30 08:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she thinks this. Did she feel this way when you married her? If not then someone has changed you or her. When she was younger she probably thought what you did was cute and funny. As most young girls do. Now she has matured and it has become ugly and stupid. Gently go to her and very politly ask her why she feels you are ugly and stupid and what would make her think that.
2006-11-30 07:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, if she thinks you are ugly and stupid why did she marry you and why did you marry her? And um, there is no way to fix ugly, unless you can afford plastic surgery but being stupid, maybe you can think before you speak and go back to school
2006-11-30 07:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by angels_killed_me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go see a plastic surgeon, and go to university become a doctor. Divorce the stupid and ugly ***** and move on. Simple.
Stupid man
2006-11-30 07:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ugly part is somthing that you can't help... you didn't make yourself. But refering to you as stupid means there is a lack of respect and what else is there if there's no respect... I'm pretty sure getting a make over is not gonna stop her from thinking your stupid
2006-11-30 07:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by weary minded 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she tell you this? Thats really mean and something a wife shouldnt say to a husband and visa versa. You need to decide if you want to stay or leave her. If you stay, get in better shape tan a few times..get a haircut. Feel like you look good to yourself first.
2006-11-30 08:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girlfriend, and then see if she thinks our ugly and stupid
2006-11-30 07:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's Stevie Wonder or Ray Charles, she knew how you looked and your mental capacity. If she accepted you the way you are then, the problem is your own level of self confidence in yourself and the relationship..Otherwise run don't walk.
2006-11-30 07:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ugly or stupid maybe she was just mad because would she have really married you if you are ugly and stupid. Ya get what i'm saying.
2006-11-30 07:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A divorce sounds like the way to go! Why did you guys marry in the first place?
2006-11-30 07:58:20 · answer #11 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋