It is part of life. Everyone does it.
Coach
2006-11-30 07:28:29
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answer #1
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answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7
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Only once, when I was engaged to a arrogant jerk. He told me if I didn't like the way he was, then leave. After I got over the hurt of his comment, and the way he acted, I knew he wasn't "the one" after all. I returned the favor in kind by blindsiding him with the return of the ring, and moving out in a matter of minutes. He was dumbfounded! I felt no remorse, but sheer relief of having made such a quick, clean break away from a person who was totally wrong for me. He called, sent emails begging me to come back, but the damage was done. I never went back, and am a better person for it. I am not the kind of person to put up with any domestic nonsense, be it verbal, or otherwise. I respect myself enough to know where to draw the line. I do not offer the 2 strikes and you're out. It only takes once, and that's all.
2006-11-30 16:12:18
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answer #2
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answered by Battlerattle06 6
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Yes! My ex husband not only physically abused me but also told my daughter that he had just killed her mother and to call the police. He left her there to find me unconscious on the bed. He showed no remorse and didn't even offer an apology at his sentencing. It bothered me for some time, but I realized that he probably didn't have a conscience or if he did, it would evenutally catch up to him. Either why you look at it, every one has their day of judgment and people with no remorse are likely to be judged accordingly!
2006-11-30 15:30:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Funny you asked this I was just telling someone about this today.. The one person if my life who I thought would never lie and deceive me has now into a liar and deceiver...my own mother..She has turned abusive..always critical...never says a positive thing to me and always tells me what a rotten daughter I am..It seems like every person that I have ever had in my has hurt me and never apologizes. Either they don't know they hurt me or they don't care. You can't control what others do..Some people enjoy being rude and deliberately hurting others...they make that their daily goal.
2006-11-30 21:04:55
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answered by chilover 7
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Yes - and most of my women friends have a female in their life that has hurt them more than any man ever could and the injuring party seems to not care at all. That is what makes the injury all the more hurtful
2006-11-30 16:54:59
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answered by Walking on Sunshine 7
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Yes, and it isn't fun. But the real question is do you trust people again? I have learned the answer is yes, not the person who hurt you but to the new people in your life you will meet. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they give me a reason to not trust them. It the old saying you get back up, dust your pants off and do it again. That way you don't turn into a recluse.
2006-11-30 15:34:07
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answer #6
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answered by LaHoma 2
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yeah when my ex husband abused me physically , mentally and verbally for years and then said to me he would leave our two babies out in the woods to die of starvation or for animals to eat them. I totally wasn't not going to let him take any of our two kids back to NC with him that is for sure. He had no remorse for what he had done to me and what he wanted to do with the kids and the judge completely yelled at him for not having any remorse for that. I am glad to say my boys grew up to become fine, young, handsome, and polite young teenage boys.
2006-11-30 15:30:38
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, some people have no empathy for others they see only their perspective, it's is a very selfish way of life, they only see one side and it is always theirs. If they see the hurt they have done they will have to look at themselves in a different light. so for them it is better if the only see their point of view.
2006-11-30 15:32:49
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answer #8
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answered by cvgm702 3
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Yes, many times, but I make it my motto not to be hurt further by thinking about what they have done to me. I have always forgiven those who hurt me in the past. By forgiving others who have mistreated you, actually your are doing favour to yourself.
By not forgiving other people's wrongdoings to you, you are actually punishing yourself. My favourite saying is: "Anger is like burning down your own house to kill a rat." That's why this saying is given the name "Golden Rule": "Do unto others what you want others do unto you." I know that I am not perfect and always make mistakes, and so I need forgiveness from other people. If I want people to forgive my wrongs, I must also be willing to forgive other people who wrong me. Another statement that I upheld is given by my best friend and king. He said: "What you do unto one of the least of these my brethren, you have done it unto Me."
2006-11-30 16:03:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes.
2006-11-30 22:40:31
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answered by hazydaze 5
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