2006-11-30 06:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Don't confuse 'making love' and having sex. Two people can have sex and be in love or not. To ' make love' you have to have strong feeling for the other person. Making love is touching, caresses, feeling. Your top priority is making the other person feel pleasure in the ultimate form. Its expressing your love in a very intimate physical way and enjoying every minute of it.
2006-11-30 07:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually a very good question, especially since many women always seem to expect men to perform to unreasonable expectations. When the shoe is on the other foot, the act becomes more complicated and interesting. It's a refreshing thought to imagine someone actually taking the time to find out what works best.
2006-11-30 15:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to make love to a man, it's probably just as simple as saying, "I want to make love to you." It would also greatly help your cause if you throw in some adjectives before the word "love." Good examples would be "hot," "sweet," "passionate," and "steamy." Mixing and matching would be recommended, too; like "sweet, sweet love" or "sweet, passionate love." That's kinda difficult to turn down.
Also, during the love-making, try saying things like, "I love you so much" while making meaningful eye contact. And be sure to let him know you appreciate it afterwards. "Thank you" are two very love-filled words. Oh yeah. Cuddles and kisses would be great afterwards, too.
In my opinion, you don't make love TO men, you make love WITH men. The same thing with women. Love is meant to be a two-way street; otherwise, it's just sex.
2006-11-30 15:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cleveland Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are wired to help women. If you need help, a good man always wants to help. If you need help in love-making, your man will help you get where you want to go. Don't worry about him - he'll be OK as long as he has the opportunity to help you. If you need help getting to sleep every night, just tell him,"I need help getting to sleep - can you help me?" Fatherly advice: this doesn't work if your man is overweight, drinking, or smoking! These particular habits prevent a man from being helpful when he is needed! A clever woman will figure out how to keep these male bad habits under control.
2006-11-30 16:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The actual physical act is not necessarily (sp?) making love, after all, when someone goes out to the club and hooks up with someone they just met are they thinking about the other person's needs and wants or are they thinking about themselves? As I see it, just participating in the act is having sex, when you love someone and put their wants ahead of yours then it can be considered making love.
2006-11-30 15:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The act of making love is very easy. You simply let your love flow into your actions. In that way, you are making love to your man. I don't believe for a second that men 'make love to' us. We make love together.
2006-11-30 15:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're implying that penetration is the sole act involved in making love.....I guess I see the point of your question. However, there's a lot more to it than that.
2006-11-30 15:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Michael N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you would find the knobs and button and the other areas for fine tuning, go slow and more than likely she'll lite up.
Be careful though, sometimes with the knobs and buttons they go all outta control.
2006-11-30 20:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by smially 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your heart and soul in to it! Learn to anticipate what they want before they want it and learn to never say no when they do ask for something! if that doesn't work you'd better buy a set of knee pads!
2006-11-30 15:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by thegoodwitchmm 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get on top - this way, you're in control, not the guy
2006-11-30 15:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋