2006-11-30 06:20:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Not a thing. I am not going to bring children in this world.
2006-12-03 06:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are saying you want to know what happens if you abort your child? Of course you know you lose that child. But [and this is just from women I have know who have done it] a lot of women I know lost there self respect for a while. They felt really bad about it. Well, all but one she screwed her way across Hawaii and kept having abortion after abortion. Some one close to me had one years and years ago and then she wanted to get pregnant and did, but sadly she lost the baby. Had NOTHING to do with the abortion but she felt it was God punishing her. So if you are strong in spirit chances are you may feel depressed for a while but will be ok. But if you suffer from depression or something similar you may have guilt and what not. Be very careful in your choice and do whats best for everyone involved if you are considering abortion. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-30 06:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you lose the chance to be a parent (assuming you don't adopt), but for many people that is a preferable choice. If you don't want to be a parent, there's no reason that you should feel pressured to become one. Many people choose not to have kids. I was on the fence for a long time. I have 2 children now, and I'm nothing but happy that I do, but I can understand people deciding not to do that.
2006-11-30 06:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please
if you are NOT ready
don't
if you think you want a child
are in a place in your life
where you are so comfortable
stable
can provide
love
shelter
yano the basics
then yeah
but as far as losing anything if you DON't bring a child into the world?
I think it's an individual question with millions of personal answers.
Take care of yourself first
share any time wealth you have with needy kids that are already here
Just my opinion
2006-11-30 06:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by chaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a child then you don't lose any thing, I guess if you never feel the love of having a child do you miss it, do you feel it. no. will you wonder if you made the wright decision, maybe. Is that something you can live with the rest of your life?
2006-11-30 06:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont know what i would have decided if i had to choose when i was a teenager, but i suppose you have to also think about what u would lose if you have a baby. If you have the baby and dont want it, it could maybe be worse. Then if you dont have it you may feel guilty later. It also depends on how much support you have. Good luck on whatever decision you make. Its your body.
2006-11-30 06:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my wife wasn't sure we were going to have children. Then we decided to have one. We couldn't imagine life without her. It is wonderful seeing a little life grow and watch him/her accomplish things. It is great hearing a child call you mommy or daddy. Sometimes it's a little hard and frustrating but we wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Our life became full and complete after we had our daughter. It is the best feeling in the world being a parent.
2006-11-30 06:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tony G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, you'll probably be an emotional wreck for a while and you won't feel like you normally do, and you won't ever forget it. But other than that, I can't think of anything you'll lose. People will say you lose yourself, you lose you morals, but if it's a decision that you are going to make, go for it. I'm por choice, and I don't understand why everyone isn't If you allow people to choose, they can choose not to.
2006-11-30 06:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe..take some time and think about it.....there are soooo many blessings a child can bring....however, it completely depends on the individual and how they feel about children..some people don't care to have children around...other love to have the lil' smiling faces. They aren't all a bucket of joy 100% of the time.....but they bring to meaning to being an adult.....
2006-11-30 06:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people might think you're being selfish. On the other hand, you might have a lot to gain. (Freedom for 18+ years instead of indentured servitude to someone not guaranteed to look after you in the future.) It's all about how you feel - don't let other people's opinions make you unhappy.
2006-11-30 06:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by Cobalt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋