My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 15DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-11-30 05:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would be worried. He might end up at your door.
Coach
2006-11-30 06:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. If you are a minor (and it sounds like you are) tell your parents what is going on. Get a new cell phone number so he can't contact you and go to the police. And please remember that there's a difference between threatening you and abusing you. I couldn't tell from your post if he ever actually struck you.
Go. To. The. Police.
2006-11-30 14:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, You need help yourself. See your school guidance counselor or your doctor for a reference to get it. You are allowing yourself to be in a victim circumstance without trying to resolve it. Discuss this with your parents, whatever, but for goodness sakes, get some help.
Good luck, God bless
2006-11-30 14:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by piggly_wigglyus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl stop wasting on time hoping he will contact you!!!
if he tries to abuse you over the phone or so...report a complain against him...
there is no need to be scared of him and you dont have to care what he or any joe american thinks of you...
You are what You think you are...
2006-11-30 14:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by prakamyaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoepfully he will go away on his own. He is obsessive and controlling, and you are co-dependant (addicted to toxic relationships). If he doesn't go away on his own, you'll have to get help from the police.
2006-11-30 14:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't erase all the messages, and take them to the police and report him. If something happens to you the police will go straight to him. He will be charged for harassment.
2006-11-30 14:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Iram 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, try to change your cell phone number.
Don't answer any calls from him.
Don't try to contact him again.
2006-11-30 14:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋