I find the femal body much moe attractive than the male body. However, I love having sex witrh men. I have fooled around with girls before and enjoyed it. I am in a committed relationship with a man and have been for 1 and a half years. I feel like I am missing something,
2006-11-30 05:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are who you are ... if you want to be considered bi-sexual then go ahead ... I'm in your situation and consider myself bi-sexual ... I've been dating a guy for over a year now & I haven't been with a woman in over a year & a half ... it truly feels like I'm missing something sexually ... we try things like going to the Strip Club or buying lots and lots of lesbian porn but for some reason it doesn't take the feeling of kissing another woman, feeling another woman's skin on top of yours ... or just the sensation of another woman is so different from men ... !
I've never wanted to date a woman or be in a relationship with one but for some reason I can't help but to be attracted to them ... not really sure if I answered your question but ... in reality ... it's only you who labels yourself ... unless you go around kissing & dating girls while your with your man people won't know ... just call yourself .. " name here " .. and try to fill that hole you know your missing ... I wish I knew how ... it would make things a lot easier for me ... good luck ... !
2006-11-30 06:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot consider you bisexual if you are in a committed relationship with a man and you've only "fooled around" with other girls. You didn't mention how old you were during your experimentation phase. When I was a kid, plenty of girls practiced kissing boys on other girls. So girl/girl play was never a big deal. It wasn't until labels started being forced on people to claim this or that lifestyle that girl/girl play became a big deal. If you can't see yourself in the same type of loving relationship as you have with your men, with a woman, then I would say that you have bisexual tendencies and is not bisexual. I am in a relationship with a man, we're engaged to get married. I find certain aspects of the female body exciting. I enjoy women sexually. It's never in a one on one situation. Usually I involve my man somehow. I don't prefer men because a relationship with a woman is not an option. Even if I was involved with a woman as hot as Halle Berry, she could not do for me what a man can. That's the long and short version of my story. I have no mental or emotional attachment to women except as I would with a platonic female friend. I would never be in an actual relationship with a woman. Therefore, I do not consider myself bisexual. Other people might but what matters to me is what I think of myself, so I don't accept the label of being bisexual.
I'm unsure what you feel you could be missing. Is it that your boyfriend doesn't do it for you? Do you feel like you should be exploring yourself more at this point in your life? It could be that the guy you're with is not doing it for you rather than no guy being able to please you. The thing I do know regardless of what situation you're in is that you can't sell yourself short. Discuss your feelings with your man. If you feel like you need a little extra, maybe you can discuss adding another girl into the picture to experiment with. There are too many unknowns in your situation for me to think that anything I'm saying right now will help. But I can share some perspective on alternative lifestyles if you'd like to know more. You can email me, if you like. Good luck.
2006-11-30 14:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if your bisexual? It's just a label made up by some dinkus who likes to catagorize people. The missing bits may just be a need for self acceptance.
Huggers........Kitty
2006-11-30 14:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by leo_rising59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a bisexual guy to me, but seem to have only begun to accept that possibility yourself -- all part of the self-identification process. Good luck.
2006-12-01 00:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may be bi. You feel you are missing something talk tour bf about it. Ask about a 3 some
2006-11-30 15:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u're a gay.....go on all the best.its nothing bad being natural with ur feelings
2006-11-30 13:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are if you're attracted to both sexes.
2006-11-30 15:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that you're missing is the need to invite Jesus to ur life. Nothing else can fill that hole.
2006-11-30 13:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jesuslovesyou 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋