I have had sex with two different partners now and it has been uninspiring with both of them. My current boyfriend is pretty experienced and his last girlfriend had multiple orgasms during sex, so evidently I am the one with the problem. To be honest, I have yet to find anything remotely enjoyable about it. If we use enough lube then it doesn't hurt, but it doesn't feel good either. I always find myself just wanting it to be over. He can't get me off "manually" either. I really really like this guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I also don't want to fake it.
Does sex actually feel good for women? What can I do to make it feel better? Are there any medications I could take that might increase my libido or sensitivity or SOMETHING?
2006-11-30 05:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes, you have no problen and your not alone, masturbate and learn about your body, try different positions his ex girlfreind may have faked it love is the best suplement
2006-11-30 05:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To most woman sex is pleasurable, but it depends on how you define pleasurable. You stated that you use a lot of lube so that it doesn't hurt???? IF you are experiencing vaginal dryness, or sex is really painful for you, then you really need to speak with your ob/gyn. There is something out there to help correct your problem or to help sex be more pleasurable and your not the only woman out there that has this condition (if this is truly the problem) However, some woman have to have a strong emotional attachment to their partner in order to achieve an orgasm without that type of bond, sex it useless to them. As far as achieving an orgasm, well there are types of methods to get you there, but your going to have to experiment with what does the trick for you. I hope this helps.
2006-11-30 06:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..it could be a number of things, if you're comfortable with it, talk to your doctor - you never know, maybe something's "off" with your body. Or it could just be a mind over matter thing..you could talk to a psychologist/therapist about it...orrr maybe you just havn't found a position that's 'right' for you. I find that a lot of positions don't pleasure me. You just have to experiment, get the cosmopolitan issue w/ the kama sutra section in it - there are a ton of positions to try!
2006-11-30 05:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Swaygirl27 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really don't care for intercourse, and I'm not attracted to women. Some women are just lying to cover up that they are like us. Don't worry about it. Some day you will experience what you like, and if you have a man that understands all women don't get off with intercourse, he will help you find out what you like. Remember, every woman is different, what one likes, another doesn't and that is normal.
2006-11-30 06:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sandi A 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have a clit right? Surely you can practice on yourself to find out what you like? If you are saying that your clit isn't sensitive then you have a problem. Maybe getting more blood into it and the rest of your vag will sensitize you. Viagra can work for women too in that way.
2006-11-30 05:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you might need more foreplay and you need to "get there" menatlly too. A woman can't orgasm unless she lets herself go mentally. Also, too much lube is not good, it just makes everything slippery. So try just enough to make it not hurt.
2006-11-30 05:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Local Celebrity 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head. Did you have a bad experience at one time? Do you think too much when your having sex? Try getting turned on first by watching porn. I love the playboy channel. Try experimenting by yourself too. Get familiar with your body and what you like.
2006-11-30 05:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anyone 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋