our relation is of 3.6 yrs & he is loyal thats for sure.Can we change our destiny!!
2006-11-30 05:39:00 · 16 answers · asked by tangy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sure that you both can change your destiny becoz u both do a true love which is really rare in this century and you now that love is that candle which melts ever stone so think destiny is stone or ur love melts that stone sooner.
2006-11-30 21:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay together if he's not willing to commit? It's either he's not really in love with you or you have totally different principles and beliefs about your "destiny". Either way, I find it hard to picture how you could be happy with him since you're obviously not on the same plane of thinking. If you want to marry him, then be honest and ask him if its possible that he can give that kind of commitment to you in the future. Just avoid sounding clingy when you do this. At this point in the relationship, you deserve to be assured that your relationship COULD go grow into something deeper. If he really can't commit and this really makes you unhappy, then it's time to rethink the whole relationship. There are a lot of guys out there!
2006-11-30 05:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tsina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone says you cant get married because its not written in your destiny they're not the one for you. Because destiny isn't written its made through the decisions YOU make in life and to me it sounds like they're making excuses. Don't get me wrong its great that they're loyal because that is hard to find in a partner. But that destiny bull**** is crazy. If you can honesty say that the two of you have had a great three years then fight for your relationship make them see that if they leave they are missing a good thing. But don't this in a obsessed way or anything. But if those three years have been rough walk away honey because its not worth it.
2006-11-30 05:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by nyca1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling , he is making a fool out of u , just go and slap him n end ur relationship right away...... he is a fake. if it was destiny to decide ur marriage then please dont get into relationships.
as the saying goes if you have a feet u will get many shoes.
so tell him that his destiny is a black board coz u r not there to give light.
2006-12-02 02:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by due drop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we make our own destiny. yes you can change it. an it may not turn out the way you like but remember this God has a plan fr everyone and this could be it or it may not be it. but god has also granted us the choice to choose. or i should say pick our path if its not right then your marriage will fail but that's Gods will not our..but it also sounds to me like he doesn't want to get married so i would separate and go your own way. Move ON!
2006-11-30 17:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is fooling you
there is nothing like destiny
i am a very successful person because i dont believe in destiny
also i know many people wjo have changed there so called destiny by love marrige & are happy
think again what is convincing you that he is serious with you ?
dont just go by his wordssssssssssssss
2006-11-30 05:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by aluminiumengineers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he isnt interested in getting married. It is up to him to change his mind about it, and stop blaming it on destiny.
2006-11-30 05:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, is he really into this destiny crap (my opinion, no offence intended) or is he just as a passing interest, and where does it say you aren't desined to be toghether, if it wasn't going to last then why has it?
2006-11-30 05:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by c s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your destiny ... dump the loser and move on.
2006-11-30 06:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a tub of Boy Butter and a box of tissue.......tell he to have a nice life.....
you need to move on
to me
2006-11-30 05:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋