nagging???

Question

how can i stop the wife from nagging at me, even when im on my best behaviour too :( can someone tell me is this a woman thing..??

Answer 1

You need to have sex with her ! It makes a big diff.Wives vent anger from neglect of emotional clossness.Having romance ect will work.

Answer 2

Well you didn't say WHAT she was nagging you about. In my case, I was there for him and would do anything and everything for him. But he would only help me out every now and then just to try to keep piece with me. The only reason that I started nagging at mine was when he started doing things for and with his friends and never me and also when he started cheating on me. By the way, we are no longer together now because he was never there for me plus the fact that he did cheat on me.

If you will show her appreciation for what she does and let her know how much she means to you and treat her good all the time, she might just change for the better with you, no it won't happen over night. She needs to hear that you love her and feel that you love her and no you don't have to have sex to prove that, but it does help.

Answer 3

No it isn't a woman thing I know plenty of guys who nag.Your wife probably does it because her mother used to do it.If it bothers you so much tell her to stop or your gone. If she gives a darn she will at least try to do better.She won't be able to stop cold turkey and never do it again but she can make an conscious effort not to.I personally don't nag but I am the only woman I know that doesn't . I don't see a point in it.But some do it just because they like to hear themselves talk.And then again some woman do it because the husband drive them to it.

Answer 4

Just start nagging her, just nag, nag , nag, keep on nagging just nag her to death. When you wake up start nagging when come home start nagging about anything and everything. She'll get the picture.

Answer 5

LOL............it's a woman thing. She won't hear it as nagging.....just reminding or asking. One of the things I've noticed about men is ........when a woman asks 'could you' and man'll say yes............but not do what she thinks she's asked. His view is that he's answered the question..end of story. If she had asked 'would you' and he says yes then he'll do whatever it was she asked if he would do.

Answer 6

Never ever respond to the nagging. You do not want her ever thinking that it works. If she has the brain of a lab mouse she will try another method.

Answer 7

she's probably just a b*tch. I hate that its a woman thing...because I refuse to nag. Ask my X, he said I didn't nag him enough. Alot of our old friends' wives were always b*tching about something, I'd just roll my eyes.

Answer 8

you can't control anyone's behavior but your own.

I would TELL her how you feel. very plainly....Also, don't be quite so available to her... maybe pull away just slightly.. do some things without her... she will get the message.. I mean like work out, join a gym, a club, something you do without her.. let her call go to voice mail when she has been nagging you. She'll get it.

also, pick up your dammmm underwear and sox and put them in the dammm hamper.

:)

Answer 9

it's normal for a woman.... my hubby used to say i nagged him to much so I took it into consideration and he asked me if i could please think about what i said before i said it and if it wasn't important to not say it at all.... I was mad at first but then i started thinking about how right he was... poor thing!!! So we are great now...i only complain about important things and the rest I just ignore.....no biggy!!!

Answer 10

brother we out here for you ! its a woman thing,mine even nags by text!!! give her the old silent treatment?

Answer 11

This question is on here quite a lot and I truly believe men love a bit of nagging.