He got mad because I couldn't make my mother bring he to work so he wants to call me bitches and stuff so I put him out and he took everything for the baby so I was like u could take from me but not your unborn baby it's confusing to me Should I let him in the delivery room or what?
2006-11-30 05:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by gmob2004 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you need him to get over his selfish behaviors your about to have a baby, also its not your moms job to be his taxi, walk, ride a bus, or find another ride. he has no right to be calling you a *****. Tell him to grow up or stay away, your about to have ababy you don't need a child raising your baby.
2006-11-30 05:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by andrewslovelywife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, this person sounds petty and is not probably someone you would want to have around in your life or your child's. The fact that he took everything for the baby suggests that he doesn't want to be in the delivery room, so I don't know if that is even going to be a problem. I don't know if the things he bought were important items: car seat, etc, or just minor things. If they were minor and you can replace them do so. If they are larger expensive items that you need and cannot afford, I would see if there is some organization (church, government) that can help you with the items you need. If your baby's father comes back around, with or without the items, you should sit him down and explain to him that as a father, he needs to start acting like a man and not engage in such childish and stupid behavior when it comes to the needs of his child. He is a man and needs to start acting like one, which means getting himself to work if need be and not letting any arguments with you affect his support of his baby. If he cannot see the sense of this, you probably need to let him go and move on.
2006-11-30 05:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by WifeMommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are churchs out there in your community that will help you with items you need for you and your baby..Theres an orginization called"cooperative christian ministrys".it isn,t Just christian org, Also call Salvation Army,they WILL assist you in this matter and the items will be NEW.(not that second hand is bad,it's not )Best Wishes and if the father is so petty to take from his unborn now what will he do for his child Once it is BORN ? sounds like a sorry piece of _ _ _ _.Let him go....
2006-11-30 05:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by reseda1420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the basis for the problem is that you have a "Baby Daddy"...Honest to pete, I don't know how our society suddenly became comfortable with this designation. Is he your boyfriend or your husband? No? Okay, then he's your child's father, not your "baby daddy". If he was a man, as opposed to an infantile little boy, he wouldn't be okay with you calling him your "baby daddy"...he would say, "Don't call me that...I'm this person's FATHER!".
To answer your question: NO!!!!! Don't let a piece of $hit like that anywhere near you or your child. If he is willing to let his own child go without, then he's a danger to your baby.
When he decides to grow up and be a father, then it might be appropriate, but unless and until he becomes an upstanding citizen, you have NO RIGHT to expose your child to a person who would behave this way.
2006-11-30 05:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no if he cant give you stuff for the baby but if he cant grow up he dont need to be there for the baby it is time for both of you to grow up because you dont talk like amom and hif he got mad over something like that then yall got to be young and if he took the stuff then is that what he is going to do all the time when something small he might run off with the baby he doesnt sound responsable but i might be wrong take it from me im young i have 2 kids and i have a dead beat father which my daughter looks forward to seeing and he is so childish and i wish i would have not brought him into there lives it is jud=ssisapoint ment and argueing in front of a two year old
2006-11-30 05:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely NOT!! That is awful. I am sorry you are dealing with that during this time - you don't need the stress. I wouldn't let him in the delivery room, not for revenge or to be mean, but he doesn't deserve to experience the miracle of the baby being born!
2006-11-30 05:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a jerk. you don't need that crap while your pregnant NO he should not be in the room with you. Ask your parents for help with the stuff you need or friends and family. Good luck to you. Raising a kid is ALOT of work. I hope that you have Friends and family that are close to you for some help. Good luck and congrats!
2006-11-30 05:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, man deserves to see his child be born no matter what....now once little one is here in the world and he has bonded with baby, dont allow him to see the baby again until after your petition for Child Support goes through, lol....best revenge
2006-11-30 05:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. You don't sound like you're that ready to take care of the baby either. Maybe you should give it up for adoption?
2006-11-30 05:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by fastattackcat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to your local pregnany agency and they should be able to help you out with what ever you need. Secondly good job on putting his triffling *ss out. lastly burn his house to the ground!!!!!! Good luck
2006-11-30 05:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋