2006-11-30 05:05:06 · 25 answers · asked by sara a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO! I wouldn't even let my mom watch me. You need to tell somewone. If u can't think of anyone u would feel comfortable telling go to a counselor at school. PLEASE don't take it. It could lead to soo much more. If there is anything else he does that makes u uncomfortable, TELL SOMEONE.
2006-11-30 05:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Krystle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 13 bodies are changing both physically and emotionally. It is sometimes a confusing and difficult time for teens because there are a lot of questions that arise. Parenting never ends and concern for ones child is always there. A dad watching you in the shower at the age of 13 may not be a great idea. If the dad is doing is out of concern, he can wait until after you shower and then ask you questions ect. But "watching" you shower is really not appropriate because you are old enough to not need help showering and getting clean. Also since your body may be at the stage where it is changing physically, it is not a dad's business to see these changes unless you would like him to or have questions/concerns. It is your body and you should feel comfortable with it and not have someone watching you while you are showering. It's no longer appropriate with your age group.
2006-11-30 05:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Panda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! If your dad is not giving you the privacy that you need and deserve, then you should first let him know that him watching you in the shower is making you uncomfortable. Then if it continues, you then need to tell your mom or another trusted adult. What he is doing is not normal and it's not right. If you feel that you can not talk to anyone at home then talk to someone that you can trust at school. But the important thing is to get this matter resolved as soon as possible.
2006-11-30 05:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by joan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not! Fathers are not supposed to do this!
First of all, this is not your fault and you haven't done anything wrong if you are asking the question for yourself. Don't listen to anything he says that tells you it's your fault.
It is *****WRONG***** for your dad to watch you take a shower. He's using his power as an older adult and authority figure and abusing you! Tell someone, and if they don't listen tell someone else. Call the police, tell a relative, tell anyone who will hear you. He has no right to do this, and it should be stopped. You deserve much better than this and need to get out of this situation!
2006-11-30 05:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by orphicart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. You need to talk to some one you trust and have the situation addressed immediately. If your mother is the type of person who you jnow would be in denial about this sort of thing I suggest you speak to some one outside of the home Eg. Grand parent, Community Social Group Leader.
2006-11-30 05:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not normal where is your mom and has he done more then just watch you in the shower?I think you need to have a serious talk with your mom and if she does not listen then you should go to your school counselor for help this behavior is not a good one nor safe!!!
2006-11-30 05:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ethel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this contunues he is 1 day going to molest u and you are not going to say anything tell your mother or the cops this is gettinhg out of hand
2006-11-30 06:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by bnbnbnb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sara, it never is. if this is you you're talking about, seek help right away. before he causes much damage and you begin to doubt yourself, before you begin to think that its your fault. your self esteem is what makes you a whole person, so protect yourself no matter what.
2006-11-30 05:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by out of my wit's end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, dad or not. Tell someone, don't wait till it's too late or if it goes farther than this. Tell your mother or your grandma or someone in your mom's family.
2006-11-30 05:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by mskash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...next time just scream real loud and start crying...that should scare him and your mother should hear u scream
2006-11-30 05:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋