i cannot deal emotionally to all answewring their silly situations which is unnecessarily creating the conflicts feeling disturbances. at the same time i need to build relation later on . how can i take break from all the relationships for six months. how to protect my solitude powers of the academics.
2006-11-30 04:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maintain split personality
2006-11-30 05:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your close friends tell them what you feel... you will have to spend some time for this. Just ensure that you don't hurt their feelings since you need all of them tomorrow when you are out of your hibernation.
Don't try too hard to avoid people, they are a part of your life. You can't simply detach yourself. You can make a time schedule for yourself where you can give some time to your friends(say half an hour). You can cut down on your TV etc... even if you only watch so called news channels which make you feel that you are an intellectual.
Try to love people... they are a part of your life... you were not sent here to stay in hibernation like a frog. Frogs may breathe through skin... you need fresh air in your lungs. Don't suffocate yourself in a closed room... come out and face the world.
2006-11-30 08:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hit a downward spiral years in the past when I broke up with the guy i presumed i change into going to marry. It took quite a few months earlier my self belief back, and it really is continuously a conflict emotionally to might want to decide on the help of a breakup. save your chin up inspite of the actuality that! existence receives better ideal. you received't experience like your primary self immediately - that is effective. it really is primary to mourn a relationship and experience unhappy about it. you're not from now on envisioned to devoid of note be an same satisfied human being you've been once you've been in a cheerful relationship. the sturdy ingredient is that you'll be able to learn from this. continuously in existence, we can look decrease back on issues which have occurred, and learn better about your self, and about what style of relationship you've been in. the excuses you broke up - were they because you've been purely unsuited, or did you annoy him, or change into he volatile etc. those causes can help you recognize the fashion of human being you want in the destiny, or help you spot what weaknesses you are able to grow to be strengths on your own personality. once you're feeling empty - attempt replacing that with getting a puppy, beginning a sport, doing something new which will divert your interest in wondering about your ex, and make you experience constructive about doing something that you celebrate with fairly. you'll experience better ideal - purely save plodding on! also - getting a sparkling haircut and new outfit does wonders. capture up with some previous acquaintances in case you may as well, to lift your spirits - yet do not sit down glumly all evening and communicate about how a lot you bypass over him and sweetness what went incorrect. Your genuine acquaintances will recognize that, yet received't choose you speaking all evening about it. Your satisfied self will go back - no matter if you come across a sparkling guy or no longer, purely supply it time. It truly does heal all wounds!
2016-10-08 00:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make excuses to get off the phone or leave the house when they start bringing up drama or asking for things.
You could tell them you are not interested in their pity party because you've got your own problems to deal with.
Trust me, better to get rid of the drama once and for all. Once things get better financially (and it will!) you are not going to want them bothering you then either. They will come to respect your decision and still care for you in the future. And they will have learned not to come to you with nonsense.
2006-11-30 04:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend
I will suggest you that you start having trust in GOD since he is the only one who can help us to find a solution to our problems.Don't worry be happy.I would also suggest you to stay away from relatives as they are the most harmful people on earth.I myself will pray to god for your early recovery.Take care
2006-11-30 04:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Surama D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think better not to ask anybody ,nobody can help you find your own way your self,all times go away does not matter how bad that is ,so my friend try to find solution yourself and get out from your crises.
2006-11-30 04:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can do what you wish.If you feel that it will be better for you to keep aloof from others then yes go for this.You have to satisfy ur feelings first.
2006-11-30 04:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man is an island unto himself. In other words, you can't.
2006-11-30 04:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋