if you think that you need to breakup with someone when is the best time to do it?
if it's right before a holiday should you wait until after, or would it be kinder to do it as soon as possible?
my friend asked for my opinion, but i've been married a long time so i don't think that i'm real qualified to answer. i thought that after xmas would be better, but i'm not sure.
2006-11-30 04:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Why delay the inevitable?? If youre gonna break up, do it NOW. There is never a "good time" to break someone's heart - so if youre gonna do it, do it sooner than later. Thats just common sense and common courtesy. You wait til after the holidays and the excuse turns to "tax season". Wait a while longer to break up, and its "spring time - cant let him be alone while everything else is mating!" So you wait a while longer and its phucking xmas again.....
Just do it already!!
2006-11-30 04:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best time to do this is after everything. If there is anything major for either person then that is a bad time, especially if you already have something planned and are prepared for it. I would wait until their are no birthdays or holidays or anniversaries and then break up. That way there are no excuses that the other person can blame you for. An example would be "you just broke up with me before Christmas so you wouldn't have to buy me anything". If you wait until everything is in the clear, then they can't use arguements like that against you.
2006-11-30 04:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it before the holiday, that way the person will be with family to comfort him or her.
2006-11-30 04:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it as soon as possible so you dont keep the person guessing i think this would work the best
2006-11-30 04:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher Parker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best time is the moment when you feel most disgusting:) no hesitation. if you don't do it in time, it will be like soap operas( extended more and more and more and more:D)
2006-11-30 04:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by zoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter because the end result will be the same.
2006-11-30 04:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no best time...If one has to break up , just do it!
2006-11-30 04:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if it is over it is over why lead him on anymore than you already have
2006-11-30 04:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by robert s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never.
2006-11-30 04:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋