How do I get my boyfriend to leave his wife for me?

Question

Has anyone gone through this before who can offer me REAL advice (which does not include the answer stop chasing married men)?

I like the idea of the pics of use together, how do I get them to teh wife without him knowing i sent them?

ya 'whatever' i am a ho...but that doesnt mean i cant find a man of my own...stop being so judgmental

dgrkar - sounds like your man wanted something different, not better, just different

my boyfriend once said no matter how sexy a woman is, there is someone that is tired of ****ing her

Answer 1

Cease with this abomination. The lake of fire awaits people like you. Why would he want to be with you? I can only hope no one will be stupid enough to help you in your quest. Find a single man OR woman and pray you don't get what's happening to his wife done to you... you ignorant dolt!

Answer 2

Honey, I have been there! and although I know you love this man and all you want is to be happy, you have to realise that it won't happen with him. If he really loved you, he would have already left his wife. I wasted a whole year on my ex, I thought he really did love me and would leave his wife. In the end, he choose his wife and yours will choose his wife. But the good news is that there really are good guys out there! Yes it is going to hurt like hell at first, but eventually you are going to be ok and you will meet someone who deserves you!!! I have met the love of my life and he always puts me first and treats me with respect. I know he will never cheat one me or leave me. You deserve the same thing!!!! I know its hard hearing all this but you can do it! Its all worth it in the end. If you still really believe that he will leave his wife for you, then give him an altamatum (sp?) tell him that if he doesnt leave his wife within the week then things are over between the two of you, by the end of the week you will know if he loves you or not. But I really hope you find someone else that can love and respect you!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

I can't believe I have stooped to answering this...

1. You have to find out why he is with his wife. Is it money, love, kids, beauty, whatever? This gives you a hint at what you need to attack. Whatever she is giving him, you have to provide that.
2. Find out what he doesn't like about his wife. Make sure you are the exact opposite! If he wants BJs, give it to him everyday and twice on Sunday. Be pleasant every time you see him and make sure he feels like he is the man. Especially in the bedroom. Don't let him see you with your wig crooked or looking broke down. Cook if you have to. My point here is that you have to make him feel that life with you is so much better than with her. Keep telling him "You only live once. Why not enjoy it?"
3. Don't get pregnant or confront the wife. Men want wives that are ladies (except in bed) and he needs to know that his new woman is a lady.
4. You may have to flirt around to make him jealous. The thought of you with another man may make him consider how desireable you are.

Answer 4

Haha!

You know what you're doing is wrong, don't you?

That's why you're calling for someone to condone or justify your acts and not tell you to stop chasing married men (because that's exactly the right thing to do).

Well, what you are doing can never be justified so therefore I'll tell you to stop chasing married men. Other than that, I don't think there's any real solution to your problem.

Fine, you may succeed in letting him leave his wife for you, but if he's capable of doing that, he's also capable of leaving you for another girl once he grows tired of you.

And if he does that to you, you will be at a greater disadvantage than his wife is [should he leave her for you]. Why? because unlike his legal wife, you are NOT married to this man and therefore you cannot sue him for bigamy should he leave you for another girl inthe future.

Hope I made sense.

Answer 5

If he really wanted you in the way you desperatly want him, he would have left his wife for you already....he is just using you for what his wife that he loves (because he married her) doesnt do for him. Im not saying to not pursue your own happiness because i am munipulative to get what i want too, even if its wrong but those are the facts! If you somehow munipulated him to leaving her for you, a few weeks later when reality hits he will begin to panic and question his move???...he will be irritaed by you because he will think you ruined his life! He will resent you because once he's moved in with you and see's you as human being he will compare you to his wife in move and will make you unhappy! Now!....if you dont care about those facts and want him aneway, drop her some hints by wearing strong perfume so she can smell you when he goes home, or if you ride in his car, leave a strand of your hair, unless he's one of those sex-addicted men this wont really work but try to milk him dry of his c*m so theres nothing left for her, and she will know if he turns her down for sex because he is tired.

Answer 6

I knew that you were going to get a bashing from heck over this and you do deserve it to. You stop and think about something here for a minute. Ok lets say that this was your husband and there was some woman out there hot on his trail and got him to seeing her and then you found out that he was cheating on you with her...how would you feel? I have been in those shoes before, on the end that he cheated on me that is and I can tell you right now that it hurts pretty dang bad! Ok now your going to say that he is not happy with her, how do you know this? Just because he told you that? Have you been in their house with both of them together? If he is so unhappy why don't he just get out of it? Let me say something here about what happened in mine. I waited on mine hand and foot, treated him so good, cooked, cleaned, did the laundry, was there for him ANY TIME that he wanted to make love, worked out in the yard, worked in the garden growing food for us to eat and even canned some, plus worked at a job outside of the home and brought a pay check in as well. I even would get up at 2 or 3 in the morning and go get him out of jail several times. There was nothing in this world that I would have not done for this man. We went places and done things together and had quality time together. Mine still cheated on me with other women like you. Since you seem to like being the other woman in this matter, YOU tell me now what was I doing so bad that made him want to be with someone like you? I am serious as a heart attach when I am asking you this question. Just what is it that after all did for him, why would he want to cheat on me with someone like you? Can you answer that for me? Even if a couple is not married, just dating or even living together, how do women like you get these guys to cheat? I am not going to bash you as you have been bashed enough already? But I will tell you, since you do know that he is married and you are still seeing him away, you BOTH are in the wrong here any way you want to look at it.

Answer 7

i went through the same thing and now I'm getting married to the man in April you cant make him leave her and if you send her pics of the both of you that might push him away first you have to find out if he is serious about you or if he is blowing smoke up you *** if he tells you he loves you and wants to be with you then tell him he needs to take the steps so you can start a life with him and give him a time line and stick to it girl you cant go on forever being the other woman all its going to cause is heartache for you keep your head up and take your ground you take control of the relationship good luck

Answer 8

Men don't cheat because they find the mistress more attractive or because they love the mistress more... they cheat because they want some thing new and different. He isn't going to leave his wife for you and I would take 99% of the things he told you as lies. Why would you lower yourself to dating men who have wives and possibly children at home waiting for them? Odds are if they really did, which I doubt, leave their family you and he would both realize you don't really love each other and that it was only lust and enjoying a short/cheap thrill. If it turn out to be love, you'll become the woman you betrayed when you are at home pregnant and taking care of another child while he is "working late."

Answer 9

You answered your own question, by saying don't tell me to stop seeing married men. You would not want this to happen to you , but you want to go with a married man. You are involved with a liar, he lies to his wife and you and trys to keep you both happy, you are involved with a cheat, a man who would cheat on his wife , will cheat on his girlfriend. , you are involved with a thief , he is stealing your future and your happiness. Find yourself a person who is single and loves you. You deserve the best in life not this piece of trash. Sending those pictures will only make him made at you

Answer 10

I don't think he will. He wants his cake and eat it too. It might hurt to you hear this and many people will say this...but you are his piece on the side. Plus think about this if he cheats on his wife with you and then he DOES leave her...who is to say that he won't cheat on you? Once a cheater always a cheater. They love that feeling of being special. You might think you could please him, but you won't be able to and I think you should give it some deep thought. My cheating ex husband had to pay me spousal support and it cost him almost half of his pay. Does that sound appealing?

I think you are dreaming, but if you really want to end his marriage call his wife. I know once I found out that my ex was cheating he was out! I told him to go to his new fling and enjoy his new life. I know his wasn't happy though because he kept begging my lawyer to end the divorce. I often ondered how that woman that broke up our marriage lived with herself?