I AM IN HIGHSHCOOL AND MY BF WANTS TO GET MARRIED WHEN I GRADUATE IN ONLY HAV 2 MORE YEARS LEFT! I AM IN UTER LOVE WITH THIS GUY WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 1 YEARS AND 5 MONTHS AND HE MAKES ME SOO HAPPY,THOUGH HE LIVES IN AFRICA MY MOM HAS WENT THERE 2 MONTHS AGO AND HAS SEEN WHAT KIND OF LIFE HE LIVES AND SUCH AND HE IS PRETTY WEALTHY!! SO DONT TELL ME THAT HE IS USING ME CUZ HE GOT MONEY:) He tells me all the time how much he's inlove with me and wants me to be his WIFE...but i am soo confused not like if i want to be with him but confused as though why does he want to get married soo soon i agreed to stay in a relationship with him and in marriage but can someone give me advice on why he wants me to be his WIFE soo badly what is going through his mind... he got a job to be able to support me when we marry and to get here and he plans to come for Christmas... i am nervous and dont know what to expect! Can someone tell me what is going through his mind and he is a virgin also.
2006-11-30 04:15:06 · 10 answers · asked by saved 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not advise getting married. You are too young to be debating marriage. Don't rush into marriage. Marriage is more than "I Love You".
2006-11-30 04:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "money" may have been a show. The man may have convinced your mom that he has money even though he may not. He may think there is more money in US. He may be of a religion that doesn't allow sex outside wedlock and wants to do it with you. If you do decide to get married, do avoid getting pregnant until you are done with college. Although, if he is of a religion that prohibits birth control you would have conflict and should avoid getting into marriage. All in all, I would say you don't have much to lose by giving him a try as long as you don't get pregnant. In that case, you would have a BIG problem if the man turns out to be a loser. You never know what someone is like until you live with them--heck even WHEN you live with them you don't know how someone will change. All I'm telling you girl is that you should maintain your independence and not let anyone stop you from pursuing your goals. Everything else is OK...including sex, relationship with someone from Africa...even marriage...LIVE it UP GIRL!
2006-11-30 04:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by not 30 yet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when people group other cultures, races, or religions. I am married to the man of my dreams. I am an american and almost all native american so I think that makes me native. I married a middle eastern man and I will never regret it. Hes wonderful too our children and to me. He loves us to death spoils the kids and is always making time for us. I wouldnt trade him for anything or anyone. The best advice I can give you is get to know him, for a while. Not just a few months. Really get to know him. If your love has triumphed over that much time then what the hay give it a shot. And your love will triumph over it all if its true and honest. Im not saying its all great, marriage is rough, it brings you too so much happiness your near to bursting but sometimes it can be so painful emotionally that you think your at the end. When that comes sit down in a quite spot relax and think of happier times. Good luck .
2006-12-01 15:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by ambrosiag2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens quite often when someone is scared of the future they try to make things permanent as quick as possible. You are right to be nervous. I got married at a young age and it is really hard. My advice to not let him rush you. If this relationship is really so wonderful then there is no reason to rush into marriage. You deserve time to grow and experience some of life before you settle down into married life.
2006-11-30 04:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be making that kind of decision. Grow up, enjoy life then get married.
2006-11-30 04:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 23:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by anuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his culture. They get married early, and quickly.
As for you, just relax, your already doubting this relationship, more pushing will only increase the problem. Don't worry it will soon fall apart as young relationships usually do. Enjoy it, and learn from it.
2006-11-30 04:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! You American? You ever see how African men treat their women? No? Ever see how Middle eastern men treat their women? No? How do you feel about having the snot beat out of you? Can you tolerate those nice yellow-green bruises on your body?
Women are treated like second...no...third class citizens there. Just for the heck of it...look up "female circumcision". You'll love it. thats one of the great benefits African and Middle eastern women enjoy as a spouse.
Think. once you're there...you're not only trapped...your property...of his.
2006-11-30 04:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are way too young to consider marriage.
2006-11-30 04:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 04:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋