2006-11-30 03:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After 27 years your heart just doesnt close to that person, Maybe they couldnt live together, that does not mean that there is not some kinda love still. Even if its a friendship love or a respect love. Or a love because of children maybe born of the relationship There could be many factors to why there is still some "worry" attached into all that!
2006-11-30 03:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Issym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she cares
You can't be with someone for 27 years and not care about that person afterwards.
Heck, my ex-wife still worries about me from time to time, and I broke her heart by cheating on her.
As the bf, should just relax and realize she comes with a contact, but should worry if she does things with and/or for the ex. It is just the same as a mother and father, they come with the wife, even if you don't get along with them.
2006-11-30 04:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because 27 years is probably more than half her life she was with this man. I have been married 25 years and if we did break up I would always care and worry about him . I have been with him longer than I was with my parents and I will always care and worry about them.The boyfriend should not feel slighted b ut happy for the time he gets now and understand she had a life before him.
2006-11-30 04:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is 27 years of her life that a divorce can not take away from her; the memories will always still be there and what ever love there was will still reside some where deep down inside.
2006-11-30 03:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may have the bf to try to get back at the x only. After 27 of devoting her life to a man she thought was a devoted husband, she's obviously resentful, and will not let him out of her life completely. But rather destined on making his life miserable.
2006-11-30 04:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A divorce is just a piece of paper. It doesn't change the past or any feelings that might be there or not be there for that matter. Its only natural to worry about people you loved or still love. Just because you love someone doesn't always mean they are the right person for you to be with.
2006-11-30 03:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Cranky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a 27 year marriage thats why.
2006-11-30 03:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by simplydelicious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was 27 years of hr life. She still loves him in her heart, but knows she can't live with him.
There's nothing wrong with worrying about those we're use to worrying about.
It's normal. IF all of us with Ex's in our lives, turned to hate, our world would be in alot more worse shape.
2006-11-30 04:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an ex wife who does the same thing. I worry about his welfare, is he happy, etc. even though he was very mean-spirited and unkind to me. I think people like us are very deeply caring people and, too, maybe part of you still loves him. That's OK!!!!
2006-11-30 03:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because just because actions change doesn't necessarily mean that feelings do. When you care for someone it has its own spot in the heart. Another love doesn't take the place of another, each has its own. That's why the ability to love more than one and to love again is possible.
2006-11-30 04:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by blaznkarma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋