I have been repeatedly bullied in my college class and saw my lecturer about 2 weeks ago about it, things calmed down and then these three guys who were bullying me started again, I confronted one and then the lecturer asked us to sit down, another one started, anyway the ins and outs of it are, I retaliated to these bullies and then when I got called a tramp off one of them I hit him. One of the lecturers got hurt in the fight which I am truly embarrased about, I never condone violence I hate fighting....one of the bullie's friends rugby tackled me and smashed me up against the whiteboard which then broke, they have been suspended but I haven't, what will happen to me?
2006-11-30 03:28:06 · 17 answers · asked by xx_lush_xx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've put up with this since last year, and last year I went along with it, laughed at them, I've been bullied right the way through school and I'd had enough, why should I put up with that?
2006-11-30 03:43:00 · update #1
there is only so much a decent woman can take! good for you, i would have did the same. these are men picking on women? what p...y's! since you didn't get suspended, i don't think the lecturer will do anything to you because he already had the heads up and didnt do more to avoid a real unavoidable confrontation. good luck.
2006-11-30 03:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Viviana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life we gotta do what we gotta do. Vilolence is a last resort. Some people say it is not an option but I think these people are the ones that get trampled in the game of life. It is okay to stand up for yourself. First try to talk it out, then try to get a third party involved to settle it, but if all fails sometimes all people understand is a lil beatdown. When I was in high school I was bullied a lot until oneday I had had enough. I fought back got suspended and all. You know what the bullies told me. They said they would have kept bullying me until I stood up for myself because I was an easy mark. So sometimes its better to do something than do nothing. I would talk to your prof. and see what his opinions are and what the college stance is when it relates to things of that nature. Lawd! Rugby tackled ya into the damn white board. You must be a tuff azz chic....lmao! You can hang wit me anyday.
2006-11-30 04:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You let them know that its Not OK for them or anyone else to bully you around. If you are not going to condone violence, then making a friend out of an enemy is the best solution. Easier said than done, but youre all adults.
2006-11-30 03:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by element_op 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you've been protecting your self adversarial to verbal or actual violence, then you fairly favor to be sure an lawyer and sue the persons. you ought to also record a police record over this incident and get a restraining order adversarial to those effective fellows. the school and professor are to blame for any harrassment or actual contact they enable in a lecture room. for sure the professor change right into a wimp and can want to no longer administration the scholars. He mandatory to kick them out of the classification and fail them at the same time as he might want to.
2016-10-08 00:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be totally honest with you, i think that maybe just maybe they are going to take the whole situation to heart and try to make your life a living hell. possibly worse than it was before because i knew people that were in a situation like that. and personally if i were where you are i'd find them and teach 'em a lesson they'll never forget for the rest of their lives. so what i can say is just hang around your friends and just try to avoid them as much as possible.
2006-11-30 03:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dwaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't been suspended yet, you probably won't be. I'm assuming you are a girl and that might have something to do with it. You are probably being seen as the victim in this incident. Try not to start any more fights though!
2006-11-30 03:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by arbolito 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you should have stuck to not condoning violence. It's not easy a lot of the time but it can sure save a lot of regret. Anyway, they won because they got what they wanted out of you.
2006-11-30 03:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Cstout 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hopefully nothing. Good for you though. Stick up for yourself. Next time just kick him in the nuts or punch him the throat as soon as he goes to say something to you. Dont wait, just pounce.
2006-11-30 03:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by drockfreak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they've already been suspended, that will probably end the matter. If it happens again, go to the police.
2006-11-30 03:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what will happen to you.
What I really want to know is... if you're in college, why are you acting like a 12 year old? The best advice when dealing with morons like this, is to ignore them. If you ignore them, they will stop bothering you.
A person can call you a tramp, a sl*t, a b**ch, or any other name they want.. it's your reaction that validates, or invalidates it. They harass you, because you allow them to.
From this point forward, ignore them... and anyone else that calls you names. They're not worth it.
Good luck...
mj
2006-11-30 03:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋